Posted tagged ‘love yourself’

Why is peace connected with love

January 9, 2011

We’re right there at the time of changes – the time of consciousness expansion. This is the time  of love. We must learn again to live in communities. And I am addressing to all singles, to be open to the partner whom they can give  their unconditional love. We should move away from talking about my husband or my wife. As who wants to own love, will never obtain love.
Usually two people meet who do not love themselves. You expect love from the partner. How can this work if both partners are in expectations and  have nothing to give?
Begin with loving  yourself. Tell yourself each morning and evening looking in the mirror “I love you , your name, and I wish you a wonderful day / one good night.” Smile at yourself with love. Repeat it and make it a ritual, even if it is initially difficult. Treat yourself nicely and you will be able to give as well as receive. But forget about expecting LOVE. Be aware about your picture of love !

You are lovable and why are we told not love ourselves? Your aura will change. Because if we learn to love ourselves, we can stop all the love dramas, as we then we are able to love unconditionally, without  any expectations.

Between love and possession is a huge difference. By the misguided love image we have created a global battlefield – both inside and outside.
Only with a changed image of love peace can grow. Help to create more peace!


Are you still searching for Love?

October 15, 2010

Searching will not work as love is not what you want, it is what you are. It is very important to not get these two confused.

If you think that love is what you want, you will go searching for it all over the place. And you will stay in the momentum of searching. If you think love is what you are, you will go sharing it all over the place. The second approach will cause you to find what the searching will never reveal.


Normally two hungry people are looking for each other. As both do not have love inside off them and love themselves completely, they are not able to give love. After the first honeymoon that is reality. Two searching individuals and they cannot get what they are hungry for as both are empty. And then we wonder why most relationships are not functioning.


Yet you cannot give love in order to get it. Doing that is as much as saying you do not now have it. And that statement will, of course, be your reality. Instead you must give love because you have it to give. In this will you experience your own possession of it.


How can you start loving yourself?


Realize why you came to this world and that there is a higher reason to be here.

If you know your reason you can appreciate your life and yourself.


Start in the morning when you see yourself in the mirror. Great yourself, address yourself with your name and wish yourself a wonderful day and say “Jane I love you deeply and completely” and smile at yourself.


You have to love yourself and fill yourself with love to be able to share love. Remember you cannot share anything which you do not possess.