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Take 100% responsibility for your life

November 18, 2012

“You must take personal responsibility. You can view the circumstances, that the seasons or the wind do not change, you can only change you yourself “~ Jim Rohn

 

The most widespread myth in modern times is that we firmly believe that we have a right to life a great life – that somehow, somewhere, someone (certainly not us) fills our lives with continual happiness, exciting careers, wonderful options, a relaxed family time and blissful personal relationships, just because we exist. This you can only have when you’re working actively to create this reality.

Because the truth is that there is only one person who is responsible for the quality of your life.

This person’s YOU.

If you want to be successful and achieve your goals, you have to take 100% responsibility for everything that happens in your life. That includes the level of your performance, the results that you produce, the quality of your relationships, your state of health and physical fitness, your income, your debts, your feelings – everything!

Most of us have been conditioned, however, to blame somebody or something outside of ourselves for things in our lives that are not good. We blame our parents, our teachers, our boss, the media, our employees, our partners, the weather, politics or economics. Just what does this change in your life? Absolutely nothing, just you always remember that your thoughts are only thing which is responsible for your reality. And therefore you need take responsibility, when you want to change something. There is no other way.

 

If you take 100% responsibility, you will definitely change the results. Because then you have control over your thoughts, feelings and actions. Unfortunately, most people are stuck firmly in their habits, which will bring no change. We are stuck in our conditioned responses to certain situations. Ask yourself how you see marriage and your role as a parent. This gives you information about habits and responses that you know from your parents. Find your own ideas about life.

We are a bundle of conditioned reflexes that occur outside our control. You must take control by your will and be responsible. You need to control your thoughts, dreams, daydreams, ideas and behavior patterns. Anything you think, say and do, must be intentionally designed with your purpose, your values ​​and match your goals.

Therefore if you do not like the result, you get now, you can only change your response to it. This means also
– Never ever give up
– No more blaming of other people or circumstances.
– No more defense,
– No, BUT, Even Though is rather solution-oriented.

These behavioral changes you can only get when you think actively and say good bye to television, radio and fiction. Be aware that you just give your subconscious mind input which it can acknowledge. Now it’s about to deliver deliberately and actively new reality and new truth to your subconscious mind.

 

 

New ways of relating

October 30, 2012

Now we need to recreate our lives to meet with the current needs and intentions of a Life plan that is larger than we are capable to comprehend in this moment. Always remember that everything is made of the same energy and therefore we are connected with everything that is existing in this Universe.

 

Many are still wiping the dust out of their eyes, trying to regain some clarity of what on Earth is going on here! You might find yourself spun around in a completely opposite direction to where you thought you were heading to.  New ways of feeling, seeing, and being come in, and along with that, the necessity to let go of prior plans and intentions that no longer have a place in the current picture.

 

This is the time of dissolution. If you are brave enough you see that a lot of old structures need to go. They are no longer valid in these changing times. We have to set up new structures and there are already many groups and organization working on these new ways of living together.

To be able to create new structures we need to overcome our Ego and finally work on relating with each other. Not only with each other. We need to find a new relationship with Mother Earth as well. She is in turmoil which the East coast of America is just experiencing.

 

In this process, much of what we have held on to and know as familiar is simply falling away as no longer useful, necessary, or needed.  We have to adapt and adjust at a rate way faster than any of us have ever experienced, and few are actually feeling totally prepared for.  However, this is the point – we are in preparation. We have gone through much initiation; we have shown that we are willing and able to work for our freedom and our Peace.  Now as we go through this concluding stage before the opening we have this final time to work on relating. Time has come to learn through the process of relationship. We are each other’s keepers, and we are here to guide, assist, and honor each other through this major transitional stage.   Letting go, letting go, letting go… is the mantra.

 

And, the practice is welcoming in what has now come into awareness, and breathing into comfortably adapting to a whole new way of living.  There is great joy, happiness, and freedom within – ready for more of the breath of life to come into and feed the flourishing, abundant nature of that way of being.  Breathe this in…and exhale this out.

 

And as many are aware, the following month holds the infamous date of the end of the Mayan Calendar – December 21st, which is understood by many to be “The Beginning” of a new phase of existence.  The birthing of new ways of existing has been powerfully moving in for quite some time now, and many are completely aware of this powerful presence upon us. We are in preparation.

 

There is a great diversity of perspective, and all our realities are colored by this varying degree. To accept this and flow with it is so essential in attempting to be in harmonious relationships.

 

This time is crucial to be used as a period to really let go, release the old, and clear space for welcoming in more of what is true and necessary for your life and those in your life.

 

May we all have the support, guidance, courage, and desire to reach deep within to our most true and essential self, where we can feel our own love for ourselves, each other and Life!  And, then may we all walk in touch with this most creative and abundant source. 

Great time to be alive

October 21, 2012

“This is a wonderful time to be alive. There have never been more possibilities and opportunities for you to achieve more of your goals than exist today. As perhaps never before in human history, you are actually drowning in options. In fact, there are so many good things that you can do, that your ability to decide among them may be the critical determinant of what you accomplish in life.”
~ Brian Tracy

 

By the effects of geomagnetic anomalies, we are likely to experience difficult tests. These tests always will return again and again just to see if we have confidence in the higher power and in ourselves and can stay in confidence. We will pass these tests if we allow ourselves to get involved in the process and raise our consciousness. You decide what angle you are taking and how you react to changes, which sometimes seem to be disasters. Every “disaster” has at least 2 sides to look at and often what appears as bad or is even painful, is actually liberation. This is what I have experienced. Do not stick to situations in life that have actually been resolved. Because when you look backwards, you cannot live in the present and then you cannot see what lies ahead of you. The best for you could lie ahead and you will not see it.

 

No matter how vehemently people deny or ignore these events, by sticking to what they and their subconscious minds tell them no one can escape from the fast-changing magnetic fields. Please remember, that the DNA is changing, and this will result in an increase in our awareness.

 

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Your denial of these changes while they are taking place will result in chaos. Broers predicts that this state will result in an enormous increase in mental breakdowns. Do you want to be one of those people? This is certainly not a solution – for neither you nor the people in your environment. Stay centered and help others to do as well.

 

Let us always remember that when many people join together they can create a higher and more powerful energy. This is what I experienced singing mantras in a group of people.

 

Do not get hooked up by people who try to stir up fear, do not get mislead. Politicians and even most scientists especially will want to hold on to old dogmas in the foreseeable future, for they have not yet realized what is happening. Always remember that you decide whether you are a loser or a winner. Instabilities that lead to chaos are necessary to create something new. We have unprecedented opportunities to make our world a peaceful and better place. Are you part of it?

 

Our ego intelligence is really so minute in comparison. The more we can humbly listen to subtle small voices within, the more profound our worldly experience can be, filling us with awe. I hope you continue to live in the possibility!

 

The Mantra of this week:

I no longer buy the stories created in my mind, 

For I now know spirit forces are working overtime!

Big Changes Lie Ahead

October 7, 2012

This coming week there are big changes coming. We will be confronted with all the dark stuff inside. It is time to look at your shadows and identify them. Look at your inner child and take it by the hand.

 

If you do not look at your shadows and decide to ignore them, be careful what comes next. You might become sick or even go into depression. That is neither a good choice nor blaming your parents. We choose our parents when our soul decided to live another life on Earth. We had our plan what kind of experiences we wanted to make in this life.  With birth we forgot about it. So there is nobody to blame for who you are.

 

The inner dark experience is the source of our outer experience. We create our reality with our thoughts and feelings. The belief makes it so! We created our inner realm. You decided that you want to be here right now. So please take your responsibility and work with yourself and come into peace. As only then you can share peace and unconditional love to make the world a better place!

 

Take this weekend for internal work and look within yourself. You own your projections and do not blame them unto other people. With blaming you do not get anywhere. Understand the human condition in connection to our planet.

 

By the effects of geomagnetic anomalies due to the sun flares, we are likely to experience difficult tests. These tests always will return again and again just to see if we have confidence in the higher power and in ourselves and can stay in confidence. We will pass these tests if we allow ourselves to get involved in the process and raise our consciousness. You decide what angle you are taking and how you react to changes, which sometimes seem to be disasters. Every “disaster” has at least 2 sides to look at and often what appears as bad or is even painful, is actually liberation. This is what I have experienced. Do not stick to situations in life that have actually been resolved. Because when you look backwards, you cannot live in the present and then you cannot see what lies ahead of you. The best for you could lie ahead and you will not see it.

 

To change our world and take responsibility in this rapid changing world, you need to work on yourself! Otherwise your EGO always stands in your way.

 

The Mantra of this week:

“As I seek my greatest health and wealth, I must dig down deep within myself, Wherein lies the root of all dysfunction, Which when owned, felt, understood and digested, Becomes the medicine for which I have quested.”

This week, after the electrical firestorms of last week will feel quite calm, perhaps blue. It’s a weekend for inward traveling, perhaps to unravel the complexities revealed recently. Find a nice cozy place and perhaps a nice cozy partner to relax, feel, and renew.

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Change to Heal

August 12, 2012

Today comes the Mantra first

“In the deep dark passages of the night, I find my way into the light. For in those places my faults are revealed, and in finding their value I am truly healed.”

 

The mantra is not kidding that you may visit some dark realms of anger and frustration this coming week. Breathe deep for the dive and you may find some sunken treasure. Indeed, this is a week where conflict can truly lead to resolution. One way or the other, it is decision time! No more putting off the “inevitable”. Choose now or forever and hold your peace!

 

Dark sides we normally want to avoid inside and outside. Please do take every feeling of anger, fear and frustration serious. Avoiding does not heal it makes you sick.

It is now the time that we must really commit to the surrendering process upon us.  The fruits are dropping from the great tree. The ripening phase has come and gone, and now all that was so abundantly available for the potential harvest is withering and beginning its decomposing.

 

This week we are cleaning up around the Sacred Tree of Life, gathering all the rotten fruits, which symbolically represent the ideas, the plans, the hopes and dreams, and the desires that were not met by receptive consumption, but left to fall.  Here with in this humble exercise we can hopefully recognize the perfection, purpose and completion of the natural life cycle.  Some fruits were consumed and transformed into nourishment, sustenance and the very life force feeding into the manifestation of the goal and intention, while the others, now fallen, remain to become composted material giving to the creation of the nutrient rich soil from which the next new seeds shall sprout.  Nothing is wasted in the natural order of life. All has its purpose.

 

You have your purpose as you had chosen to be here in the year 2012 and take your responsibility and be a part of the big changes. And therefore everything that happens in your life, whom you are meeting, your dreams and desires have a purpose or are serving that purpose.

 

In the world it seems that we are just having war and planning the next war. Your purpose here is to find your inner peace. Inner peace you can have when you have conquered your fears and worries.

 

The best advice for future
“Do not do what you have always done or you were told to do so.”


It can also mean that your budget gets smaller and you need to correct it. Is this something you ever thought that it was necessary? It can happen that you cannot rely on your new spouse, or even trust your new business partner, as you have done before. It may be about to risk what you have already acquired throughout your life, like a hope, your dreams, your beliefs, a person in your life, business, or your family. It may seem that the life you know now appears to be unfair. Mostly it is about daring to dream again, like old dreams of your childhood, or even movies or social norms. These expectations can be fulfilled or not.
You might not want to hear that. You believe you are able to change or you hope that everything stays the way things were. It is time for all of us, do not be an ostrich and instead take the ample opportunity (or should I say the kick in the pants) offered to you to do it easily.
Clearly, you cannot continue to bury your head in the sand. If you do, you will intensify the crisis. How do we get out of this dilemma?
Be open to all changes! Do not hold on things and situations, which want to dissolve, especially not because of the need for security.  Today life has a very different quality. Create security in yourself as so it manifests itself in the Universe!
Because Henry Ford says:

“If you think you can do it, and if you think you cannot do it, you’re always right!”
Invest in yourself and increase your awareness by understanding the new world!

 

Time to create

August 5, 2012

 

“The stars once spoke to man, it is world destiny that they are silent now, but in their silence there grows and ripens what man speaks to the stars!” ~ Rudolf Steiner.

 

While I feel that the stars are at least still whispering, this quote from Rudolf Steiner catches the feeling of the full moon happening in Aquarius a few days ago. Now is the time to take the initiative and authority to not just break free of the old but actually create and bring in the new!

 

Leo/Aquarius reminds us that we are the ones we’ve been waiting for, and put another way, nobody else is coming along to do it! This is a good week to open up our minds (Aquarius) AND get those creative juices flowing (Moon moves into Pisces).

If you look around and listen to the news, what are you thinking? If you think this cannot be true, then search for movements which want to change the world. They are there in every country.

 

Here in Germany we have a movement to set up a new and legal republic with basic democracy. In Italy people are joining in a new party to prevent Berlusconi.

 

Bolivia managed to get rid of Coca Cola and McDonalds. There is movement everywhere. If you are opening you will find what you can support. Get active or as my mentor John Assaraf once said GOYA = Get off your ass!

 

Too many people are just moaning and groaning. We can only get different result if we thing, feel and act differently.

Start with your goals which need to be bigger than what you have now. Get out of your comfort zone and active. There is no other way!

From school onwards we are trained as slaves. Most people look for a “save” job, not realizing how many people lose their job every day.  Safety you can only have in yourself.

 

You get there if you realize your fears and worries. We all have them got when we were small. When you look at them and do into the feeling you feel the pain, but you can also find out that this fear has nothing to do with your current life. Mostly these fears are from our parents.

 

To create a new society we have to leave our fears and worries behind us. How to get rid of them you find in my book “Success Killer No 1 – Fear and Worries” on Amazon: http://tinyurl.com/d2sshr3

 

 

Life on the Fast Lane

June 17, 2012

Do you still want to continue a life with the handbrake remaining on the fast lane?  Do you want just to react instead of feeling yourself and your needs?
This way you cannot live any real relationship. You and your partner live side by side, you both go your way and emotionally you are separated from each other. You might only know the lives in the outside.
Most people even live their private life on the fast lane. It’s always about diverting attention from him and the crisis.  Do you know that? Party until you drop, extreme sports, travel, concerts, sporting events, etc. If you only live your life in the outside it brings you only deeper into your crisis.
As long as you are fighting your crisis and do not want to look at it, it can only get worse:  marriage and relationship crises, alcohol dependence, depression, burnout, cancer, stomach ulcers, etc.
If you dare to confront yourself with your feelings and injuries, this is like a rebirth with the appropriate labor pains. However, the result is just incredible. You will discover yourself and you can then live your relationships differently, because you have a relationship with yourself now! Who am I and what do I want? And why would I want to that? These are your most important questions.

 

And if you need support to look at them, find somebody who got experience with what you are going through!
So then the lonely life with the handbrake on the fast track at last ceases at last. To live a happy and successful life you need to stop to make your life and your happiness dependent on external things. Your fear of losing control is your brakes. Confront yourself with your fears! Because when you get to know your true needs, you also come down from the fast lane.

Discover the little child in you and its needs to live what was never allowed? What rules did your family have and everybody had to obey them? Every family has its history and its handling rules? Could you show your feelings, were they noticed or ignored? To look at it hurts. Go into the pain and let them go. It is dangerous to stay in pain, because then you go into depression.
It is not about blaming anyone. Your parents were able to give only what they have experienced or received from their parents. These rules are often in a family since generations. You now have the chance to break this vicious cycle. Get to know your needs and seize the opportunity of change. Try out what you is good for you and always take enough time for yourself only then you can relate to others in a more successful way. Connect to yourself! Stop to live a life on the outside, unless you know your inner life.
Realize what your crises are and then grow beyond. I support people in this process. Just dare to simply let the control go when you do not want to be the perfect slave for yourself and others.
I now invite you to discover yourself!

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Time for Decisions

June 3, 2012

This is a powerful week where we may need to stand firmly to truth and consciously choose to let go of an old life to make way for the new. Not only the lunar eclipse but Venus transiting across the face of the Sun in Gemini, heralds a new relationship between the spiritual/physical, light/dark, masculine/feminine, conscious/unconscious worlds that can result in greater peace, love and unity than we have yet known.  Take an active part and start to take your necessary decisions. Let us consciously go for that change!

This June will be seen not only as the mid-year turning point but as a long-term turning point within many people’s world view, values, relationships, and life direction. It initiates the beginning of the much heralded changes foretold in so many of our world religions.

We are living in a time of transition focused upon the awakening, empowering, and fulfillment of the heart chakra. With the help of many celestial, spiritual forces, some from beyond our solar system, the vibrational frequency, magnetic field, and general atmosphere of our planet is increasing in intensity as it rises. More sensitive individuals, animal species, tectonic plates, and even economies which just mirror human stress levels, have been experiencing these changes approach like a tsunami.

We can already see and experience the social fabric of many of our nations start to disintegrate, support systems falter, and financial crisis become more commonplace. Within our personal, family, and social relationships also, the temperature has been rising. This is the time to make changes. Get ready and do not resist the changes. This is the chance of your lifetime. Do not get into fear; just be grateful that we move into a better world.

The collective purpose along with the point of the buildup of all this energy and its inevitable release is a burst in conscious awareness leading to the liberation of suppressed, ignored, and denied human potential. This month of June will bring decision after decision and change after change. It builds the pressure to make changes and for some of you it may seem unbearable at times.

Our choices determine our character and decide our future destiny both individually and collectivly. The fear of making the wrong choices relinquishes our power to external forces, be they partners, families, employers, churches, or governments. This inaction can also be seen as resisting the forces of change, growth, and evolution thus damning the river of life. This month will see the cracks in that damn begin to burst. The result may be experienced as catastrophic by those remaining in fear as a result of separation consciousness. This is the liberation from the shackles of limitation by those who wish to ride the river to the ocean of unity.

Most traumas will be experienced by those who wish to remain unchanged. They try to remain sitting on the fence and not choose one path of action over another. As hard as it may seem, this is nothing but an exercise in freedom, the ability to determine the future course of our lives within the face of “danger.” It is the limited and conditioned Ego that will come up with thousands of excuses why we cannot have the life which we deserve to live. These ego-generated fears will also be unconsciously projected outward and manifest as governments, banks, relationships, and even our beloved planet herself, that are seemingly stopping us from a fulfilling, joyful, life experience.

“As I unite the dark and the light, I shine like a beacon in the night.”

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What are Rituals?

May 13, 2012


Rituals strengthen our habits. This is not an option in 2012. It is important that we change ourselves and expand our consciousness. Therefore, we should break with the rituals that make no sense. Scour your rituals and see what you can change instantly. There are many rituals that you have set as your children were small. Do they still make sense?

 
If we want to expand our consciousness, we need to think bigger and things change constantly. As you attempt to change old habits in everyday life you certainly must do things differently. Look at the little things that you can change. Find out the aspects where your habits and rituals are sabotaging you in your personal growth or in your relationships. Then find out what you can change by thinking and acting bigger. Dare you to leave your comfort zone.

 
Now is the time to sow and very special days will be June 5th and 6th. Take your time off and see what you can modify for your own growth in all areas of life. It is the time to plant seeds.

 
Leave your mundane life with the mundane content and activities. Celebrate your life in every area of life. Avoid profanity in communication, relationship, sex, and in dealing with the people. Instead of being stuck in prejudices start to celebrate every aspect of life. This includes the gratitude for the little things in life.

 
Remember that with gratitude, as if you had already gotten, what you desired, you can attract everything in your life. I encourage you to live a blessed life. This includes also the fact that you not only accept yourself as you are, but love yourself with all your heart. This is only way that you can experience a life of unconditional love. The only way you can see people without prejudice.

 
Live a blessed life, by seeing, hearing, feeling, smelling, and experiencing the seeds in your life. Take time to relax; enjoy your body, food, garden, nature and diving into the waters of the lake or river. Bless the water that you drink, because it gets new energies. This way you can bring the energy that is still lacking into your life.

 
Ceremonies are something special. Put this peculiarity in everything that is important for you. This is only way to change your values and beliefs. With this new perspective you can change your habits.

 
It is important immediately stopping
– to blame others for your mundane life.
– No, and Never have to be banished from your vocabulary and your thoughts.
– But instead replace it with, however, as however is solution-oriented.

 
Celebrate yourself and be free of your limitations! Enjoy your great life!

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Consciousness of the Heart

April 1, 2012

Everybody needs to be ready to face and investigate the paradox that we are separate and yet One! We are both masculine and feminine while being either a man or a woman. We are even both mortal and immortal. This list may go on and on this month as we collectively absorb a new reality of union which will require the dissolving of old belief systems. They have maintained an illusion of separation which we are now ready to release. Most certainly, a paradox is the creation of an ego driven mind that can only be “seen through” by the spirit-aware consciousness of the heart. Listen to your inner voice and get the inspirations. This is your way to enlightenment, surely to an easier life.

 

It may lead some to the experience of exhaustion, ill health, and perhaps to anxiety and desperation. The illusion consists of the belief that with enough consciously concentrated energy and intention we may control the course and outcome of our lives. This illusion is perpetrated by an ego that is a prisoner of its own fear of dying, surrendering, and uniting.  It will define as weakness, costly, risky, foolish, and any other number of “rational” excuses used to perpetuate itself amidst overwhelming evolutionary forces awakening it to ever expanding realities.  We cannot escape! If we fight and deny these forces we will become sick and depressive.

 

The paradigm of “not enough” is based upon the notion that we are not enough and since we can’t control everything this belief is self-fulfilling. It leads to “you are not enough”, “there is not enough”, “we will never have enough” etc. Since we cannot control everything this belief is ultimately self-fulfilling. If we are led by this paradigm we will continue to work, work, work, do, do, do, push, push, push, and blame ourselves, each other, our partners or spouses, the boss, the banks, the government, the Illuminati or whoever when our efforts go unrewarded and fail.

 

Stop fighting the process we are undergoing. We are heading for the next dimension! We are called to live in union and not separated. So if you notice you are called for this, go for it.

 

I had my call about a year ago and am happy now to live with my parent. The same time a lot of new opportunities came along which fulfilled my dreams. I wanted to work with children and as a business coach. Now it became true.

 

I just want you to notice that as long as you fighting a situation you will never be aware of the opportunity that waits for you! Whatever you call security is no longer relevant. Just give it up and win a new freedom that opens new doors for you!

 

Enjoy your life in an abundant Universe!