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Our Future

August 11, 2013

We put our soul trusting in the love in the hands of other people. But no one out there can give us, what we really need. That what we are looking for, we can only find in ourselves. With the decision to love yourself, the most exciting journey of your life starts!

I can confirm this from my experience. We can perceive people differently because we can accept them as they are, as we can now can share unconditional love. There will be no more stereotyped thinking but true encounter.

Precisely this behaviour is important for the future of the next 20 years. Unless we learn to love ourselves unconditionally, we cannot pass on true love. We need to develop respect and recognition as values​​, since the migration is rather increasing than diminishing.

With these values ​​we must urgently treat Mother Earth as well, or hurricanes, earthquakes and floods hit us even more. Fracking for oil and gas will destroy our environment, and we certainly do not want that this planet looks inside like a Swiss cheese.

if we change our purchasing behaviour from globally to regionally and only purchase what we really need, then not only our economy has a chance to survive, but we as consumers, too. We need new technology and energy sources. The change of energy sources also prevents wars.

There will be wars about water and food, too, if we do not change our behaviour and develop values. Greed and inhumane treatment of people have no future or we all have no future!

Sustainability and values ​​are the winners! Let’s start changing NOW!

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Time of Love

March 9, 2013

On 6 June 2012 the last intense event occurred when Venus – Earth and the sun are in one line. This will influence our paradigm (blockages) resolution immensely. Do not hold on to established partnerships which want to be resolved, that do not work anymore. It’s no longer about finding the soul mate. First of all we have to love ourselves first, because only then will we be able to live in unconditional love. We were always taught that we should not love ourselves, because self-love was identified as egoism. Therefore, we must now learn to accept not only our bodies but to love ourselves deeply. Then we are one with ourselves and able to love all people. It means to stop condemning others, for we are all of the same energy and interconnected. Everyone has their own learning goals in life. Therefore we cannot ask people to change for our sake. As they are responsible for their life, we are only responsible for our life. We can create a field of peace on earth only by the unconditional love and that will also end the war against Mother Earth.

As already mentioned, we’re right there at the time of change, a time of expansion of consciousness. This is the time of love. We must learn again to live in communities. This also means that we must open ourselves to the people to whom we give our unconditional love. Say goodbye, to talk about my husband and my wife. Who wants to possess love, will not obtain love. When two people meet who have never learned to love themselves, how can two love-hungry people exchange love? They expect only and have nothing to give. Only when we learn to love ourselves, we can stop the love dramas in our life. For between love and possession is a big difference. By the misguided love image we have created a global battlefield – which shows up in our private life, too.

In our hearts we, however, continue to be yearning for fulfilling love. What happens to two people who think they love each other, when they get married? The building or buying a house leads them directly into lifelong commitments, and the rat race is inevitable, and the problems take their course. Both are caught in the machinery of the generally accepted social system, but the deep desire never goes away completely. However, that scenario which is reality for most people increases the tension that will eventually be broken by one of two partners: divorce, illness or burnout.

Only through a changed love image we will be able to experience peace inside and outside. As long as we are busy with our claims of ownership (my house, my land, my car, my family, my business, and other state symbols), we are in war against us and Gaia.

Live from your Heart, with Love!

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Release

February 17, 2013

An important aspect in our current life is to live on a minimum basis. We really need the least of what we get offered.

Only those who can create space get new energy, in whatever form. We often want this or that, and see no way to get it. Why not? The reason is that our inside and outside is completely cluttered  and nothing new can come to us.

I keep hearing how hard it is to let go. Many people remain in relationships, even though they are beaten or mentally abused, just because the fear of being alone is greater. How sick is that? I do not want to condemn anything, but would love to remind these people l, to respect and to love themselves.

What does it mean for you being alone? Is it just that you do not want to look at yourself and not even take notice? It is certainly easier to project anything onto others than to be with yourself. If you would have seen a different behaviour by your parents and other adults as a child, it would be easier to develop a new paradigm. But there is no reason to leave things as they are.

You can always change your thoughts and feelings at any second. In order to change your attitudes and actions, you have to engage yourself with your subconscious. How this works, I’ll like to show you. Learn how the Universal Laws can be used in daily life.

Now back to our topic . Go through your home and take you in front of every room and every closet and do not forget the garage. If letting go is really hard for you go for one item every day which you have long ignored or used. Then judge if someone else would be happy and give it to the thrift store. Otherwise, throw it in the trash. Separate yourself most importantly of all broken things. Because broken stuff spread negative energy according to Feng Shui. It is also easier to part with them first.

Do you also belong to those people who sit intensely watching television or have  the radio always running?  You clutter your head and you can no longer think clearly. I can see that in many adults and children. Reduce noise pollution at home instantly  and learn to enjoy the silence.

Start to  learn to love yourself and feel comfortable with yourself. Welcome yourself every morning in the mirror and say to you that you love and accept yourself as you are. If you succeed, can you pull on other people, because you no longer need love from the outside, but  you can share unconditional love.

The mantra of this week:

While I love myself,

my world changes.

Everything is much brighter and more free

as I am one with my soul!

End of Patriarchy

January 14, 2013

The topic right now is business and duty!

In this content it is more important to leave the me, me, mine behind you! That means to check which way you receive your personal fulfillment  Is it from your outside or your inside. True fulfillment can only be gained from the inside. Belongings like cars, house and clothes stand for the outside. True fulfillment from the inside can be you loving yourself, a smile from somebody you cross your way or the embrace of a good friend.

It is the end of patriarchy which stands for the exclusion of everything else. Here the self and the me comes first and has to be served first in any instant.  Now we are moving into the matriarchy, the age of Aquarius or the 5th Dimension. Here the inside and the you plays the big role. The most important things we need to take care of are our Mother Earth, our children and our soul. Create something amazing for the future generation as well as on a personal level. Get in touch with your inner energy which is connected to the higher self. Transmute to a true social being. Our children do not need course number 4 or 5. They need you and your embrace, time and feelings. Yes even to set goals and borders are important. Help your child to grow to become a social being.

We talk about unconditional love. Venus stands for this new kind of love. You can only share unconditional love when you accept and love yourself. Say goodbye to old patterns and set up your goals. Work with affirmations.

Whatever happens now. You are not getting punished. It is now the time to set up new rules for our society. Big social changes will happen as most of the public institutions, banks and businesses do not have an answer to the new queries. We can notice that in a lot of areas in our life, things are not working anymore.

This could be an answer, but beside you have to work with your inner self, your soul? What is your soul’s purpose? Why are you here at the time of change. We just entered a new period of 26.000 years.

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This is the Mantra of this week:

“The Sun sets over the mountain

closing another day.

I feel my heart mourning

the loss of its embrace

But before long the Moon sings her song.”

Miracles can happen

July 31, 2011

Miracles happen when we love ourselves and are then able to give unconditional love.

When you love yourself deeper every day you are opening up for a juicy life. What is a juicy life? Get our and meet people. Experience yourself as a loving being in connection with people you meet. They will notice that you are different. You will talk and treat people differently when you are able to express unconditional love. It also means to be open for opportunities you have not seen yet. The Universe is abundant and loving yourself means to connect to this abundance. Then miracles can happen!

Unconditional means without conditions. Remember that you put labels on people: they are ugly, lazy, noisy, arrogant, not cooperating, foreigners, handicapped or even old. You do not need these labels anymore. Love without conditions does not need them.  You will stop blaming others as you realize that only you can change your life. And it is so easy. Be the I AM and you can even forget your own restriction:

–       I am not worth it

–       This is not for me

–       I am stupid

–       I am too fat

These are your paradigms, which you can change as well.

Here is a powerful mantra:

I am Love, I am Joy, I am Health and I am Abundance

The I am is very powerful and repeating that mantra aloud again and again, it will change your energy.

This is FREEDOM as well. You can be You and not the person your parents , your spouse or boss is expecting. Be you and you have so much more to give that everybody will love you as you are.

There is so much more to experience in this world of change. Please start loving and respecting our planet as well. If we want to survive we have to cooperate and stop exploiting our Mother Earth.

The solar flares are increasing their power and on day it will hurt us because we missed  to change ourselves. The time of change forces us to do so.
More on this subject in my book “2012 – Our reality of change” on http://www.successcoach4you.com/index.php/home-en.html

Love yourself and find unconditional love

July 23, 2011

As already mentioned, we’re right there at the time of change, a time of expansion of consciousness. This is the time of love. We must learn to live in communities again. This also means that we must open ourselves to the people to whom we give our unconditional love. Say goodbye, to speak about my husband and my wife. Who wants to possess love, will not obtain love. When two people meet who have never learned to love themselves, how can two love-hungry people exchange love? They expect only and have nothing to give. Only when we learn to love ourselves, we can stop the love dramas in our life. Between love and possession is a big difference. By the misguided love image we have created a global battlefield – which shows up in our private life, too.

In our hearts we, however, continue to be yearning for fulfilling love. What happens to two people who think they love each other, when they get married? The building or buying a house leads them directly into lifelong commitments, and the rat race is inevitable, and the problems take their course. Both are caught in the machinery of the generally accepted social system, but the deep desire never goes away completely. However, that scenario which is reality for most people increases the tension that will eventually be broken by one of two partners: divorce, illness or burnout.

Only through a changed love image we will be able to experience peace inside and outside. As long as we are busy with our claims of ownership (my house, my land, my car, my family, my business, and other state symbols), we are in war against us and our planet.

But it shows up in the public life as well. People who need the recognition of certain groups which misguide and manipulate them by giving them the feeling they belong to the big family. The people who join these organizations have never learned to love themselves. If you start loving yourself, your consciousness is growing and you get to know yourself. Then you do not need others who tell you who you are and what you need to do.

Start in the morning to be grateful for another day full of wonders. When you go to the bathroom and look at yourself in the mirror, wish yourself a good morning and say: “I fully and completely love myself and I wish you a wonderful day, your name!” do that for several weeks until you feel it. Use the Law of Gratitude to attract the right people in your life. People who have learned to love themselves. Say Good-bye to the ones who do not want to change. And listen to your inner voice – it knows the truth!

2011 – The Year of Venus

January 20, 2011

The year we just entered is the year of Venus and it brings us harmony, if we can let our prejudices and paradigms go.

I know that today´s topic is controversial for a lot of my readers. In the Venus year we are confronted with our love topics. It is our firm belief that if we have a lover, partner, wife or spouse we own their love and that we are the only one they are allowed to love. The second topic is that we lost our love for Mother Earth.

As long as we expect exclusive love and see our wife or husband as our possession, there cannot be real and unconditional love! How did we get the idea, that we can possess love? That is what we were told by the Gods of the churches. They even told us to exploit the earth as a subject. Mother Earth is alive as we are alive. Why on earth do we think that can work for us? Can`t we see in our surrounding that it is absolutely contradictive? There are so many divorces and unhappy families and people. Do never forget that your children learn from how you live your life. Your prejudices and paradigms will be theirs and they then can only copy your life.

As long as we keep these paradigms we will be unable to give and receive love! That is the truth! But in this year with the energy of Venus we have the chance to change for unconditional love! Start with loving yourself and accept that you can only receive love but never possess it!