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Are you still searching for Love?

October 15, 2010

Searching will not work as love is not what you want, it is what you are. It is very important to not get these two confused.

If you think that love is what you want, you will go searching for it all over the place. And you will stay in the momentum of searching. If you think love is what you are, you will go sharing it all over the place. The second approach will cause you to find what the searching will never reveal.


Normally two hungry people are looking for each other. As both do not have love inside off them and love themselves completely, they are not able to give love. After the first honeymoon that is reality. Two searching individuals and they cannot get what they are hungry for as both are empty. And then we wonder why most relationships are not functioning.


Yet you cannot give love in order to get it. Doing that is as much as saying you do not now have it. And that statement will, of course, be your reality. Instead you must give love because you have it to give. In this will you experience your own possession of it.


How can you start loving yourself?


Realize why you came to this world and that there is a higher reason to be here.

If you know your reason you can appreciate your life and yourself.


Start in the morning when you see yourself in the mirror. Great yourself, address yourself with your name and wish yourself a wonderful day and say “Jane I love you deeply and completely” and smile at yourself.


You have to love yourself and fill yourself with love to be able to share love. Remember you cannot share anything which you do not possess.