Archive for the ‘responsibility’ category

Indigo children need respect

April 7, 2013

How can we offer these children a happy and healthy childhood?

 

Children can learn from responsible adults to take responsibility for their own behaviour. They do not benefit from being blamed for the trauma and stress that result from not being accepted as they are. They need support and not diagnosis and medication! They thrive when adults show that they love and understand them and when their basic childhood needs are met.

 

Our experience as a child is different, from the experiences these kids have. Therefore we cannot deal with them as our parents have dealt with us. Instead of putting them on drugs and force them to function according to old standards, we certainly can provide alternatives. Ritalin is not a substitute for better schools, creative teaching and parents who spend more time with their children. The number of children that are put on Ritalin increases enormously and we can only imagine what damage is done on these children.  Can we afford to be arrogant and ignorant instead of being open for changes? These children are the adults of the future. Let’s make them fit, rather than destroy them and make them unfit for life.

 

According to Dr. Mary Ann Block, author of “No More Ritalin: Treating ADHD without drugs” observations, the right brain is stronger in these children. These children are stronger in visual, creative, artistic, physical and geographical perception. Our education system is, however, concentrating on the left brain. This can only go wrong. The children of the new generation will always have problems with that kind of learning. These children have no chance to survive in the current school system. And this is again proof that we urgently need to change our school system.

 

Block also said that these children tend to be to be the tactile learners. This means that their leading learning system is “doing” rather than “seeing or hearing” and their brains do not easily process visual and auditory information. The children continue to try to learn as best as they can. Due to their tactile learning style, they tend to play with their pencil and poke their neighbours to have contact. However, in the current system they are perceived as intruders or as learning disabled, although they only trying to learn in the manner that works for them. It would be easy to support the tactile learning style that these children can learn. All they need is to touch something and that would be achieved with a soft ball they can knead. Addressing the sense of touch would support their acoustic and visual learning. This can also reduce unacceptable, hyperactive behavior. Because such children often do not listen, it’s easy to call them by name, or to touch them just to get their attention.

 

Take 100% responsibility for your life

November 18, 2012

“You must take personal responsibility. You can view the circumstances, that the seasons or the wind do not change, you can only change you yourself “~ Jim Rohn

 

The most widespread myth in modern times is that we firmly believe that we have a right to life a great life – that somehow, somewhere, someone (certainly not us) fills our lives with continual happiness, exciting careers, wonderful options, a relaxed family time and blissful personal relationships, just because we exist. This you can only have when you’re working actively to create this reality.

Because the truth is that there is only one person who is responsible for the quality of your life.

This person’s YOU.

If you want to be successful and achieve your goals, you have to take 100% responsibility for everything that happens in your life. That includes the level of your performance, the results that you produce, the quality of your relationships, your state of health and physical fitness, your income, your debts, your feelings – everything!

Most of us have been conditioned, however, to blame somebody or something outside of ourselves for things in our lives that are not good. We blame our parents, our teachers, our boss, the media, our employees, our partners, the weather, politics or economics. Just what does this change in your life? Absolutely nothing, just you always remember that your thoughts are only thing which is responsible for your reality. And therefore you need take responsibility, when you want to change something. There is no other way.

 

If you take 100% responsibility, you will definitely change the results. Because then you have control over your thoughts, feelings and actions. Unfortunately, most people are stuck firmly in their habits, which will bring no change. We are stuck in our conditioned responses to certain situations. Ask yourself how you see marriage and your role as a parent. This gives you information about habits and responses that you know from your parents. Find your own ideas about life.

We are a bundle of conditioned reflexes that occur outside our control. You must take control by your will and be responsible. You need to control your thoughts, dreams, daydreams, ideas and behavior patterns. Anything you think, say and do, must be intentionally designed with your purpose, your values ​​and match your goals.

Therefore if you do not like the result, you get now, you can only change your response to it. This means also
– Never ever give up
– No more blaming of other people or circumstances.
– No more defense,
– No, BUT, Even Though is rather solution-oriented.

These behavioral changes you can only get when you think actively and say good bye to television, radio and fiction. Be aware that you just give your subconscious mind input which it can acknowledge. Now it’s about to deliver deliberately and actively new reality and new truth to your subconscious mind.

 

 

Big Changes Lie Ahead

October 7, 2012

This coming week there are big changes coming. We will be confronted with all the dark stuff inside. It is time to look at your shadows and identify them. Look at your inner child and take it by the hand.

 

If you do not look at your shadows and decide to ignore them, be careful what comes next. You might become sick or even go into depression. That is neither a good choice nor blaming your parents. We choose our parents when our soul decided to live another life on Earth. We had our plan what kind of experiences we wanted to make in this life.  With birth we forgot about it. So there is nobody to blame for who you are.

 

The inner dark experience is the source of our outer experience. We create our reality with our thoughts and feelings. The belief makes it so! We created our inner realm. You decided that you want to be here right now. So please take your responsibility and work with yourself and come into peace. As only then you can share peace and unconditional love to make the world a better place!

 

Take this weekend for internal work and look within yourself. You own your projections and do not blame them unto other people. With blaming you do not get anywhere. Understand the human condition in connection to our planet.

 

By the effects of geomagnetic anomalies due to the sun flares, we are likely to experience difficult tests. These tests always will return again and again just to see if we have confidence in the higher power and in ourselves and can stay in confidence. We will pass these tests if we allow ourselves to get involved in the process and raise our consciousness. You decide what angle you are taking and how you react to changes, which sometimes seem to be disasters. Every “disaster” has at least 2 sides to look at and often what appears as bad or is even painful, is actually liberation. This is what I have experienced. Do not stick to situations in life that have actually been resolved. Because when you look backwards, you cannot live in the present and then you cannot see what lies ahead of you. The best for you could lie ahead and you will not see it.

 

To change our world and take responsibility in this rapid changing world, you need to work on yourself! Otherwise your EGO always stands in your way.

 

The Mantra of this week:

“As I seek my greatest health and wealth, I must dig down deep within myself, Wherein lies the root of all dysfunction, Which when owned, felt, understood and digested, Becomes the medicine for which I have quested.”

This week, after the electrical firestorms of last week will feel quite calm, perhaps blue. It’s a weekend for inward traveling, perhaps to unravel the complexities revealed recently. Find a nice cozy place and perhaps a nice cozy partner to relax, feel, and renew.

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Be aware of yourself

September 9, 2012

The challenge could actually be to manifest as being torn between having fun and having too much work!  Your consciousness wants to go out and jump but your sub- consciousness might just say “Not until you get ALL your work done!”  Hence the mantra is about finding the balance.

 

Will you find the balance in your life? It is not easy as you might have a lot of work and still you feel you need to slow down. Give yourself the allowance to step out and party or allow romance. Turn the love light on and start to share abundant love by starting to love yourself.

 

Then go one step deeper and find out what you are really passionate about. Be dynamic and experience your adaptability and communication. You will find tension when you want to get things and feelings from others. This means you have the power to love yourself, be grateful for what happens in your life. This may be the sunshine, the flowers in the neighbor’s garden or the smile of the person you meet on the way to work.

Now we have reached Virgo and the Virgo signs want everything perfect and they love to control.  But be sure if you are getting to big things slow down. Be aware how big your piece of the cake is! Do not overeat, overtalk and overwork! Instead get out and enjoy yourself and recharge your batteries.

 

Be aware of your feelings and needs. In times of change we all need time for ourselves. Make sure you give yourself time for meditation or a walk in nature. It could be your time out to take a relaxing bath. Just find out what is the best to slow down.

 

I am firmly convinced that we cannot continue with our present consciousness any longer. It keeps us where we are right now and on the other side the cosmic forces challenge us and support us to raise our consciousness. It is therefore quite obvious that we must move forward, this is already clearly visible. It is a wonderful experience; if you can you engage in it. You do not have to stay where you are right now, you always can change any second to chart a new path and evolve. Just now you even receive the support of the entire universe. The only thing stopping you might be your fears and worries. Do not let fear and anxiety continue ruling your life. Always remember that you are the master who is responsible and runs your life.

 

Start with taking responsibility for your thoughts, feelings and actions!

 

This is your Mantra:

Life is breathing in and out, sitting still within then jumping to shout.  As I value both with equal measure, I guarantee a brighter future!”

You Path

Thrive

August 26, 2012

You are meant to thrive! Moves are happening everywhere and you are here right now to participate.

Here is the mantra of this week:

“When I’m able to risk messing it up,
And I go for it giving all I’ve got,
I am being the best I can be,
And no matter what happens,
It’s (I’m) OK by me.”

This mantra is mutable and can be either “It’s” or “I’m” depending on your preference. One way or the other it is time “market” yourself….get on out there, show your stuff, and use the feedback to improve your show.

 

It is high time to stop sitting on the coach, watch TV and wait for what is happening. Your soul wanted to be here in this moment and thrive. We are here to grow and enhance your life and do good to other people’s life. In the reality of change we do not need coach potatoes. We need people with vision. What is your vision?

But you will stay in your comfort zone as long as you look for security outside. Security can only be in you! Right now economic and social systems are breaking apart. As long as you always think, feel and do what you have always thought, felt and done, you cannot obtain other results! Please understand this.

 

It is simple to give your life direction you need aims which are bigger than your thinking at the moment. You just need to know the What you want and the Why you want it. The How you can leave to the Universe, God, Allah or whatever you call this never ending energy! I can ensure you, this works beautifully.

 

 

Please join movements like Thrive or get together with other people and do something good for your community. A lot of communities do not have enough money to take care of social projects. Be there and find out what your part is in this huge evolution.

 

But start working on yourself:

  1. Start with loving you as only then you are able to share love with other people.
  2. Be grateful for the small things and you will shift your energy. In the presence of gratitude fear and worries cannot be there the same moment.
  3. Be responsible for your thoughts, feelings and actions!

Work on these 3 points and you will see that your life is joy and love!

More support you can find in my books with a lot of mental exercises: http://tinyurl.com/d2sshr3

Free Yourself

August 19, 2012

“ When I play with the day I see it as the only way, to find what is uniquely me, and bring it out for the world to see.”

This new Moon in Leo on Friday will hopefully bring out the lion cub in all of us that likes to romp and play in abandoned joy. Letting go of the stress and tension from the recent weeks will allow the creative juices to flow….in joy!

This week we will enjoy a beautiful time.

If there are still deep emotions regarding feelings and relationships of all kind, go into these emotions, feel them deeply and then you can let them go. Put them in your hand and throw them away. You can even put them in a tin bucket and burn them and let the smoke go in peace.

We are moving into a different energy field in the next month. Leo is about creation, fun, joy and play! There is even time for recreation.

Play has nothing to do with an agenda, nor plan and aims. It brings us in the moment and frees our personal expression. Be in the flow – sing, dance and feel the freedom!

Make room for free time to tap into deeper parts of yourself. Do meditation. If you cannot sit still, go for a long walk in nature and realize the abundance of nature. Abundance allows Freedom!

You have to start with

Love, Love, Love!

Love yourself and others. There may be times this is easier than others, but make it your overriding intention. Love lies at the heart of all that you seek, and separation from it lies at the root of your troubles and pain. Let love be a guiding light in your life that will steer your ship through stormy waters back to the shore of truth, happiness and joy. We all love to love and be loved! It doesn’t get better than that! It is the highest vibration there is. The more you love yourself and others, the happier, brighter and more successful your life will become.

 

This is what we are called for in 2012. Again I can only tell you do not fight against feelings and situation. Release bad experiences that still trouble you. They are old and have nothing to do with your current life. Free yourself from whatever stands in your way.

The only other thing you need to take is responsibility.

Take responsibility

As James Allen says, “Circumstance does not make a man, it reveals him to himself’. The more you take responsibility for your life, the more you are able to change it. Responsibility is freedom and empowerment. Become conscious of the thoughts, feelings, beliefs and attitudes that are creating your world. Take responsibility for them and choose those that serve you and your world.

Love and responsibility are the two things that will change your life enormously.

Take responsibility for your thoughts, feelings and actions. Then you free yourself!

Love is easier when you start loving yourself unconditionally.

Life as Your Teacher!

March 18, 2012

Let life be your teacher, because that is the only way you can spread your wings. If you can fly you will succeed in everything.
In this state we are only when we let go of our limiting attitudes and thought patterns. As long as our life is run by limiting thought patterns, we find ourselves in a hamster wheel.
As long as you’re afraid not to be enough and not to deserve, you limit yourself. To escape this trap, you have to learn to accept yourself unconditionally. It starts with the daily exercise,  look in the mirror and say aloud lovingly, “I love you with all my heart, I accept you as you are now and forever!”
The thought pattern “If I do not, then …” you ought to let go forever.
Use the Sedona Method by Hale Dwoskin:
First Step
Imagine situations when you think “If I’m not doing that …” and go into the feeling. Only when you feel the limitation, then move on.
Second Step
Ask yourself: Can I release this limiting thought patterns?
Name it and ask the next question only, if you answered YES to this.
Third Step
Ask yourself: Do I want to let go of this limiting thought patterns?
When you get here is a resounding YES, move on
4th Step
Ask yourself: When can I let go of it?

If the answer is NOW, then take the thought pattern in your hand and now you have several options:
– Throw it away in a high arc,
– Pack it in a jar and seal it or burn it.
Do what is harmonious for you.
You can use this method for any feelings, injury or distress. It may be that you have to perform this exercise more often, as feelings, thoughts and fears work at various levels.
All these stories with “If …. then …” are based on
–  I’m not worth it.
–  No one likes me.
– No one loves me.
The Universe tests us, because we have to raise our consciousness. We have no choice. If you fight against it, then you go into illness.

The test is not to be overwhelmed by anything. What you have to do, do it always one step at a time. Put your chores on a list and what you have done, just cross it off. Celebrate each step you have done and be grateful for that. You made it!
Trust yourself and the Universe and slow down your pace. Do your breathing exercises, if you do feel the pressure. Never respond to the feeling of shame.
You are worth it, to experience everything that is happening around you. Remember that you decide how you perceive things.
Do you want to finally learn to take responsibility for yourself, your thoughts, your feelings and your actions?

Leave the old ways and dare to change!