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Time to Surrender

November 11, 2012

We are in the development where women become stronger. There will not be a matriarchy as this time we need to take the men with us in this evolution.

 

On Tuesday we have the last solar eclipse before the 21st of December 2012. The energy is building up and it is time for the next evolution. The solar eclipse is unfolding the human consciousness and the integration of the feminine with the masculine can happen. 2013 it is end of the separation. Please be aware of this if you want to stop suffering.

 

If you are a single become aware of the other sex and learn to see them with other eyes.  We have the chance to experience new relationship coming into a union. Now we are called to work together not against each other. Patriarchy is at its end. Imbalance has to change to balance. We can see that in every way of life: society, economy, politics and relationships.

 

The Masculine stands for Strength.

The Feminine stands for Power.

 

The masculine is unaware and innocent. It is simple, earthly and strong.

The feminine is connected to the unseen and therefore powerful and nurturing.

 

The masculine needs the feminine guidance. Women need to be patient to become the guiding force. Men are sometimes unaware that they need guidance. They fear the powerful feminine and therefore they suppressed the feminine in the past. Now the masculine soul is full of guilt. Men have an unconscious knowledge about their guilt. This is the reason for their behavior. Guilt kills the strength. Therefore they keep fighting.

 

In the feminine there is a lot of anger trying to resume their position – which means control, liberation and independence. Instead of working together they are fighting with men.

SURRENDER TO EACH OTHER!

The guilty men and angry women need to surrender to each other. Men try to be sensitive but the women are too strong. On a deeper level the end of separation is here. Both sexes have to acknowledge their anger and guilt.

 

We need to form a strong union to change our relationships and communities. The war between sexes has to stop! Men need to listen to women and that requires humility. They need to surrender to the feminine power otherwise guilt will eat their soul!

 

The feminine is counting on the masculine to make the changes. Women have to be careful in education. War of sexes cannot be won! Both have to surrender to each other and find new ways of relating.

 

Put the strength and the power together to create a new world! Women can support and nurture, but men have to stop betraying. They need to be true.

 

Move together in union and the new dawn is there. Working together we can manifest a new way of living together and develop a new society.

 

It is up to you to realize the chances we get with new ways of relationship!

New ways of relating

October 30, 2012

Now we need to recreate our lives to meet with the current needs and intentions of a Life plan that is larger than we are capable to comprehend in this moment. Always remember that everything is made of the same energy and therefore we are connected with everything that is existing in this Universe.

 

Many are still wiping the dust out of their eyes, trying to regain some clarity of what on Earth is going on here! You might find yourself spun around in a completely opposite direction to where you thought you were heading to.  New ways of feeling, seeing, and being come in, and along with that, the necessity to let go of prior plans and intentions that no longer have a place in the current picture.

 

This is the time of dissolution. If you are brave enough you see that a lot of old structures need to go. They are no longer valid in these changing times. We have to set up new structures and there are already many groups and organization working on these new ways of living together.

To be able to create new structures we need to overcome our Ego and finally work on relating with each other. Not only with each other. We need to find a new relationship with Mother Earth as well. She is in turmoil which the East coast of America is just experiencing.

 

In this process, much of what we have held on to and know as familiar is simply falling away as no longer useful, necessary, or needed.  We have to adapt and adjust at a rate way faster than any of us have ever experienced, and few are actually feeling totally prepared for.  However, this is the point – we are in preparation. We have gone through much initiation; we have shown that we are willing and able to work for our freedom and our Peace.  Now as we go through this concluding stage before the opening we have this final time to work on relating. Time has come to learn through the process of relationship. We are each other’s keepers, and we are here to guide, assist, and honor each other through this major transitional stage.   Letting go, letting go, letting go… is the mantra.

 

And, the practice is welcoming in what has now come into awareness, and breathing into comfortably adapting to a whole new way of living.  There is great joy, happiness, and freedom within – ready for more of the breath of life to come into and feed the flourishing, abundant nature of that way of being.  Breathe this in…and exhale this out.

 

And as many are aware, the following month holds the infamous date of the end of the Mayan Calendar – December 21st, which is understood by many to be “The Beginning” of a new phase of existence.  The birthing of new ways of existing has been powerfully moving in for quite some time now, and many are completely aware of this powerful presence upon us. We are in preparation.

 

There is a great diversity of perspective, and all our realities are colored by this varying degree. To accept this and flow with it is so essential in attempting to be in harmonious relationships.

 

This time is crucial to be used as a period to really let go, release the old, and clear space for welcoming in more of what is true and necessary for your life and those in your life.

 

May we all have the support, guidance, courage, and desire to reach deep within to our most true and essential self, where we can feel our own love for ourselves, each other and Life!  And, then may we all walk in touch with this most creative and abundant source. 

The Pressure of Today

July 15, 2012

It is time to reflect, reorganize, re balance, reconsider …. in a time of increasing pressure.

The speed of things happening in your life and surrounding is increasing. Now is the time to look back, review contracts etc. Are your contracts and commitments in the flow or are they holding you back. Please check it out, otherwise you get into the hamster wheel. Look back and find out what is not in the current flow.

We will experience major changes in the next few weeks and months. You want to be prepared and not fall into panic because you are trapped in contracts which might be necessary to be changed or even broken.

This is you task at this time. Look at your life and see where it hurts, stops you from moving on or gives you trouble.

Remember that diamonds are created under pressure. And pressure creates volcanoes and when the come out they create more fertile land.

Now the pressure creates your true self expanding in the collective unconscious. This is the morphogenetic field

We can already see and experience the social fabric of many of our nations start to disintegrate, support systems falter, and financial crisis become more commonplace. Within our personal, family, and social relationships also, the temperature has been rising. This is the time to make changes. Get ready and do not resist the changes. This is the chance of your lifetime. Do not get into fear; just be grateful that we move into a better world.

The collective purpose along with the point of the buildup of all this energy and its inevitable release is a burst in conscious awareness leading to the liberation of suppressed, ignored, and denied human potential.

Speak the truth! When feelings are coming up, overreacting and justifying is coming up. This does not help us to stay in the truth. Overreaction is based on old feelings and experiences. This happened in our early childhood or are even only feelings out mothers had. They are reproduced when somebody clicks the right button.

Keep it at the level of feelings. Tell the other person who triggered the button “when you said that or die that, I felt ….!” Get into the true feelings. You mind will tell you you have the right to feel hurt. But it is only the feelings that are hurt. Come back into your balance when you learn to recognize your feelings. Your partnership got out of balance, but you can bring it back to balance, when you know what hurt your feelings and grow out of it.

Listen to other people. It is a challenging time to listen. Truth hurts, so check where it hurts.

Small becomes big and bog becomes small!!

Learn to say NO or NO MORE.

If you are too big, thinking you are always right, become humble.

If you are too small, it is high time to grow!

These are opportunities to deepen our relationships. Come out of your safety zone and you may get into new relationships.

Stay in your feelings, got to meetings or parties. Be seen and open for new challenges and opportunities.

Mantra of this week

“As I stand in the truth of who I am, I no longer fear to begin once more”

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Life on the Fast Lane

June 17, 2012

Do you still want to continue a life with the handbrake remaining on the fast lane?  Do you want just to react instead of feeling yourself and your needs?
This way you cannot live any real relationship. You and your partner live side by side, you both go your way and emotionally you are separated from each other. You might only know the lives in the outside.
Most people even live their private life on the fast lane. It’s always about diverting attention from him and the crisis.  Do you know that? Party until you drop, extreme sports, travel, concerts, sporting events, etc. If you only live your life in the outside it brings you only deeper into your crisis.
As long as you are fighting your crisis and do not want to look at it, it can only get worse:  marriage and relationship crises, alcohol dependence, depression, burnout, cancer, stomach ulcers, etc.
If you dare to confront yourself with your feelings and injuries, this is like a rebirth with the appropriate labor pains. However, the result is just incredible. You will discover yourself and you can then live your relationships differently, because you have a relationship with yourself now! Who am I and what do I want? And why would I want to that? These are your most important questions.

 

And if you need support to look at them, find somebody who got experience with what you are going through!
So then the lonely life with the handbrake on the fast track at last ceases at last. To live a happy and successful life you need to stop to make your life and your happiness dependent on external things. Your fear of losing control is your brakes. Confront yourself with your fears! Because when you get to know your true needs, you also come down from the fast lane.

Discover the little child in you and its needs to live what was never allowed? What rules did your family have and everybody had to obey them? Every family has its history and its handling rules? Could you show your feelings, were they noticed or ignored? To look at it hurts. Go into the pain and let them go. It is dangerous to stay in pain, because then you go into depression.
It is not about blaming anyone. Your parents were able to give only what they have experienced or received from their parents. These rules are often in a family since generations. You now have the chance to break this vicious cycle. Get to know your needs and seize the opportunity of change. Try out what you is good for you and always take enough time for yourself only then you can relate to others in a more successful way. Connect to yourself! Stop to live a life on the outside, unless you know your inner life.
Realize what your crises are and then grow beyond. I support people in this process. Just dare to simply let the control go when you do not want to be the perfect slave for yourself and others.
I now invite you to discover yourself!

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Bring Love in the World

April 15, 2012

This week is all about commitment, contracts and relationships.

–          Be aware which commitments you have to fulfill and do it with love!

–          Check your contracts and see which ones are right for you. What is not right, just release them!

–          Check your relationships carefully. Which people are supporting you and who is an energy vampire?

–          Check as well all the communication you had recently and solve all misunderstandings.

–          Be more patient with others and do not argue about different opinions.

The year 2012 is the revolution of love. This starts with self acceptance and self love first. You cannot love anybody if you do not love yourself dearly. Most of us were always told not to be so selfish. Selfishness has nothing to do with loving and accepting yourself!

Why do we have so many singles in the world? Just alone in city like Munich nearly half of the population is single. Can you see the reason that more and more people are not capable to live a relationship? The reason is that we never learned to love ourselves.

If you cannot love yourself and expect to be loved, you only attract people who are like you. But what if then both people wait to receive love? Two people expecting love from the other person will never experience true love!

How can you change yourself that you are able to exchange love in your relationship?
Only those who learn to love themselves can attract a person, who loves himself/herself.
Then only unconditional love can flow and a wonderful partnership can be lived. This will even bring peace into the world. No more fighting and misunderstanding!

Start your morning in the bathroom and tell yourself that you love yourself. Smile at yourself and kiss your hand like Bob Proctor shows us.

Renew the power of your Self by

–          speaking the truth

–          loving yourself

–          being you

–          showing your true feelings

It is not about judging. Stop blaming other people. If you do not like your reality, start to change it by changing your thoughts.

 

You and I come from a phase of feeling. If you stop blaming others you will stop having negative feelings.

Do not be afraid to disagree with the ruling class, politics, churches etc. Many institutions which were set up on greed and keeping people in fear will have to change, if they want to survive. Just accept that we are in times of changes. The outside is no longer secure and trustworthy. Security you can only have in yourself not from the outside. There is a crisis of the consciousness. We need to create a new world. Are you ready to participate?

 

It may feel like anarchy as we have chaos at the transition to the new dimension. Be comfortable with yourself! When you love yourself and trust your gut feelings, you are secure!

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This is your Mantra of this week:

“I am the love that I see in the outside world!”

Love yourself and find unconditional love

July 23, 2011

As already mentioned, we’re right there at the time of change, a time of expansion of consciousness. This is the time of love. We must learn to live in communities again. This also means that we must open ourselves to the people to whom we give our unconditional love. Say goodbye, to speak about my husband and my wife. Who wants to possess love, will not obtain love. When two people meet who have never learned to love themselves, how can two love-hungry people exchange love? They expect only and have nothing to give. Only when we learn to love ourselves, we can stop the love dramas in our life. Between love and possession is a big difference. By the misguided love image we have created a global battlefield – which shows up in our private life, too.

In our hearts we, however, continue to be yearning for fulfilling love. What happens to two people who think they love each other, when they get married? The building or buying a house leads them directly into lifelong commitments, and the rat race is inevitable, and the problems take their course. Both are caught in the machinery of the generally accepted social system, but the deep desire never goes away completely. However, that scenario which is reality for most people increases the tension that will eventually be broken by one of two partners: divorce, illness or burnout.

Only through a changed love image we will be able to experience peace inside and outside. As long as we are busy with our claims of ownership (my house, my land, my car, my family, my business, and other state symbols), we are in war against us and our planet.

But it shows up in the public life as well. People who need the recognition of certain groups which misguide and manipulate them by giving them the feeling they belong to the big family. The people who join these organizations have never learned to love themselves. If you start loving yourself, your consciousness is growing and you get to know yourself. Then you do not need others who tell you who you are and what you need to do.

Start in the morning to be grateful for another day full of wonders. When you go to the bathroom and look at yourself in the mirror, wish yourself a good morning and say: “I fully and completely love myself and I wish you a wonderful day, your name!” do that for several weeks until you feel it. Use the Law of Gratitude to attract the right people in your life. People who have learned to love themselves. Say Good-bye to the ones who do not want to change. And listen to your inner voice – it knows the truth!

Time sensitive – Relationships

July 17, 2011

You can see it in the outer world and maybe experience it already in your inner word, that this month of July 2011 we are forced to look at our relationship patterns. In the economic and political field we see that as the problems increase parties are forced to work together. We have to improve our relationships if we want to create a better future.

Venus, the planet that stands for relationships, is strongly intervening and forcing us to transform our views and paradigms about relationships. The Venusian impetus questions our love pictures. It talks of a larger and freer love picture, of a love of cosmic size, of unconditional love. I experienced this love once – it was great experience! This love is a pleasure and not a fight.

Moreover, what has love got to do with fight? After the first love and when reaching everyday life most couples forget what has attracted them most in the other partner. They collect the penalty points instead of seeing the positive sides and just be grateful what lovely partner you got. Life is a lot easier when we live in gratitude. As long as you are grateful, fear and worry have no chance.

The transformation of love pictures (paradigms) is not a private but a collective issue that affects us all. The universe has confidence in us; the problems are only challenges and help us to grow and to solve problems. The plasma emission of Venus has increased in the past 30 years in 600 times. This gives us the necessary information when we listen to our hearts.

Do not hold on to established partnerships which want to be resolved, that do not work anymore. It’s no longer about finding the soul mate. First of all we have to love ourselves first, because only then will we be able to live in unconditional love. We were always taught that we should not love ourselves, because self-love was identified as egoism. Therefore, we must now learn to accept not only our bodies but to love ourselves deeply. Then we are one with ourselves and able to love all people. It means to stop condemning others, for we are all of the same energy and interconnected. Everyone has their own learning goals in life. Therefore we cannot ask people to change for our sake. As they are responsible for their life, we are only responsible for our life. We can create a field of peace on earth only by the unconditional love and that will also end the war against Mother Earth.