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Are you willing to lose?

July 22, 2012

One essential truth is that you must be willing to lose it all before you can have it all.

What does this mean? It means that until you can let go of everything, you will find it hard to hold onto anything.

 

Detachment is the key. If you are so attached to something that you are deeply unhappy without it, and then you are not simply attached, you are addicted.

 

You will not have to think but a second to know exactly why you received this message today.

 

Many people are addicted to our own habits and musts which are dictated from outside: job, generation, peer-group, society and advertisement.

 

Go and questions these musts! Here are just a few of them:

 

Is it necessary to drive a certain car because you have a certain job, even you hardly can afford it?

Is it necessary to wear certain brands just because the others do the same?

Is it really necessary to run your life constantly on high speed? Always overtaking others no matter what it costs.

Is it necessary to neglect your family just because your work has the only priority?

What would happen if you downsize your life in certain areas?

 

It could be

–      You start to enjoy life in a different way.

–      With the exercise of regular meditation you could be healthier.

–      Caring about yourself and your loved ones, makes you free to do a better job.

–      Letting go gives you mental freedom to love yourself and see the real values of life.

 

We can live a peaceful, happy and successful life when we take time and work with our blockages. They are the ones reducing quality of a fulfilled life. You notice that there is something missing, That is the reason to prevent that feeling and get addicted to some bad habits.

 

Do not be afraid to meet your chore needs and your feelings. When you start to look at your habits you encounter your blockages. Feeling what hurt you in your childhood is the first step to encounter your fears.

 

Fears and worries are the success killer no 1 for all areas of life. Fears have very often nothing to do with your current life. They are mostly the fear of your parents. You inherited these fears even pre birth.  Get rid of things which do not belong to you. They prevent you to live a happy and fulfilled life.

 

In times of crises when the chaos starts it might be necessary to let go of things or ideas which are no longer appropriate. There is no longer any security from outside.

You can only find or develop security inside you.

 

When you are willing to lose all only then you can receive all. Never ever forget that you have to give first before you can receive. Where there is no free room the is no space for new things.

 

Your Mantra this week

“As I am willing to let go, the Universe which is abundant is willing to give!”

 

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