Archive for the ‘perserverance’ category

20 Criteria for Success

May 19, 2013

 

1. The ability to be able to motivate yourself: What is meant here is the will to succeed. There are basically two categories of motivation: the inner and the outer. To include external factors such as recognition or material incentives. However, this makes the necessary actions dependent on circumstances  which one has no or only a minor impact. The motivation from within yourself (e.g. job satisfaction), however, is more effective, because it reduces dependence on external factors. On performance-based people are certainly the ones who can combine both types of motivation conveniently together.

2.  The ability to control impulses: Impulsive reactions are nothing unusual, and in some situations quite necessary. Nevertheless, the immediate reaction of inner impulses lead to ill-considered actions and prevent existing skills actually be implemented. People with focus on success therefore act – if needed – quickly, but otherwise rather from their experience, and after a time of weighing out.

3.  Knowing the need of perseverance and endurance: Endurance is certainly among the most important factors of success. Who resigned too quickly, will never be able to achieve his/her goals. Who, however – despite obvious futility – sticks  too long to one thing blocking himself unnecessarily in his life. So success-oriented people act and recognize when perseverance is needed, and this must not be limited to professional life. In other parts of life, as in the repeated wooing a man in love, with a realistic degree of persistence can lead to the desired result.

4.  The awareness of being able to make the best of your abilities: First, it is important to recognize his/ her abilities at all, e.g. by the experiences collected in professional life. People with success orientation draw their own conclusions and change, if possible, in a profession that matches their abilities best.

5.  The ability to turn ideas into action: The best ideas ultimately lead to nothing if they remain grey theory. Performance-oriented people have learned that their ideas need to be followed by deeds. Interestingly, for this ability there is not always a need of a high IQ: While people with higher IQ in more relaxed situations show leadership rather than people with low IQ, this is often reversed during stress.

6.  The ability to act result-oriented: “The journey is the destination.” This wisdom is not true, when it comes to success orientation. In this case, the result is rather crucial. People with success orientation, although still interested for the process of the course, lay their actual concentration in the product that has to be generated. They act very much result oriented.

To be continued!

Transformation is needed

January 20, 2013

 

 What we love and appreciate in relationships, love and money are our values, our sense of self worth. It is not what we get from other people. We are asked for intense transformation which only can be done within ourselves. Detach from the outside world and get in touch with your soul!

 

We are triggered and we trigger other persons. The issues are about money and financial security. Either you get a pay rise or get fired. In any case you get new impulses. It is time for lots of conversations. Do not avoid them as you may get valuable information. Be sure that if one door closes at least 2 more doors open, but only if you let the first door close.

 

In business you can get too much input. But do not worry. This is the time to thrive your business. Love what you do and be creative. Try not to get hectic. You do not need to talk immediately or take an instant decision. Sleep over it and always take a deep breath first. Avoid to be driven by outside forces.

 

It is time to reflect and look for long-term solutions. Do not spur the moment. Whatever looks unstable, leave it and do not overreact. Chill out, slow down your stimulances like caffeine or cigarettes.

 

Just try not to get too swept away with all the action and make rash moves/comments/actions. Take time to relax and enjoy each moment!

 

We are now in the times of Aquarius which is the inventor and visionary and stands for non attachment  We are in the best time for business. The more we unite with collective aims the better it is.  What we need right now is commitment, perseverance and endurance! Then and only then you can succeed!

 

Our relationships are just mirroring our feelings and shortcomings! Build your acceptance and love. Detach from who you  are and what you want. Just look inside and listen to your inner voice!

 

Before the patriarchy we had matriarchy. As we now just entered the 5th dimension we are called to balance these energies like yin and yang. Men and women have both male and female energy. If we manage to balance both parts, we can live in a peaceful and just wonder-full world.

 

Your Mantra for this week:

“Now’s the time to change,
The way I live and love,
Time to go within,
And see I’m now old enough,
To accept the Other as they are,
And not project my stuff!”