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Love yourself and find unconditional love

July 23, 2011

As already mentioned, we’re right there at the time of change, a time of expansion of consciousness. This is the time of love. We must learn to live in communities again. This also means that we must open ourselves to the people to whom we give our unconditional love. Say goodbye, to speak about my husband and my wife. Who wants to possess love, will not obtain love. When two people meet who have never learned to love themselves, how can two love-hungry people exchange love? They expect only and have nothing to give. Only when we learn to love ourselves, we can stop the love dramas in our life. Between love and possession is a big difference. By the misguided love image we have created a global battlefield – which shows up in our private life, too.

In our hearts we, however, continue to be yearning for fulfilling love. What happens to two people who think they love each other, when they get married? The building or buying a house leads them directly into lifelong commitments, and the rat race is inevitable, and the problems take their course. Both are caught in the machinery of the generally accepted social system, but the deep desire never goes away completely. However, that scenario which is reality for most people increases the tension that will eventually be broken by one of two partners: divorce, illness or burnout.

Only through a changed love image we will be able to experience peace inside and outside. As long as we are busy with our claims of ownership (my house, my land, my car, my family, my business, and other state symbols), we are in war against us and our planet.

But it shows up in the public life as well. People who need the recognition of certain groups which misguide and manipulate them by giving them the feeling they belong to the big family. The people who join these organizations have never learned to love themselves. If you start loving yourself, your consciousness is growing and you get to know yourself. Then you do not need others who tell you who you are and what you need to do.

Start in the morning to be grateful for another day full of wonders. When you go to the bathroom and look at yourself in the mirror, wish yourself a good morning and say: “I fully and completely love myself and I wish you a wonderful day, your name!” do that for several weeks until you feel it. Use the Law of Gratitude to attract the right people in your life. People who have learned to love themselves. Say Good-bye to the ones who do not want to change. And listen to your inner voice – it knows the truth!

Time sensitive – Relationships

July 17, 2011

You can see it in the outer world and maybe experience it already in your inner word, that this month of July 2011 we are forced to look at our relationship patterns. In the economic and political field we see that as the problems increase parties are forced to work together. We have to improve our relationships if we want to create a better future.

Venus, the planet that stands for relationships, is strongly intervening and forcing us to transform our views and paradigms about relationships. The Venusian impetus questions our love pictures. It talks of a larger and freer love picture, of a love of cosmic size, of unconditional love. I experienced this love once – it was great experience! This love is a pleasure and not a fight.

Moreover, what has love got to do with fight? After the first love and when reaching everyday life most couples forget what has attracted them most in the other partner. They collect the penalty points instead of seeing the positive sides and just be grateful what lovely partner you got. Life is a lot easier when we live in gratitude. As long as you are grateful, fear and worry have no chance.

The transformation of love pictures (paradigms) is not a private but a collective issue that affects us all. The universe has confidence in us; the problems are only challenges and help us to grow and to solve problems. The plasma emission of Venus has increased in the past 30 years in 600 times. This gives us the necessary information when we listen to our hearts.

Do not hold on to established partnerships which want to be resolved, that do not work anymore. It’s no longer about finding the soul mate. First of all we have to love ourselves first, because only then will we be able to live in unconditional love. We were always taught that we should not love ourselves, because self-love was identified as egoism. Therefore, we must now learn to accept not only our bodies but to love ourselves deeply. Then we are one with ourselves and able to love all people. It means to stop condemning others, for we are all of the same energy and interconnected. Everyone has their own learning goals in life. Therefore we cannot ask people to change for our sake. As they are responsible for their life, we are only responsible for our life. We can create a field of peace on earth only by the unconditional love and that will also end the war against Mother Earth.

2011 – The Year of Venus

January 20, 2011

The year we just entered is the year of Venus and it brings us harmony, if we can let our prejudices and paradigms go.

I know that today´s topic is controversial for a lot of my readers. In the Venus year we are confronted with our love topics. It is our firm belief that if we have a lover, partner, wife or spouse we own their love and that we are the only one they are allowed to love. The second topic is that we lost our love for Mother Earth.

As long as we expect exclusive love and see our wife or husband as our possession, there cannot be real and unconditional love! How did we get the idea, that we can possess love? That is what we were told by the Gods of the churches. They even told us to exploit the earth as a subject. Mother Earth is alive as we are alive. Why on earth do we think that can work for us? Can`t we see in our surrounding that it is absolutely contradictive? There are so many divorces and unhappy families and people. Do never forget that your children learn from how you live your life. Your prejudices and paradigms will be theirs and they then can only copy your life.

As long as we keep these paradigms we will be unable to give and receive love! That is the truth! But in this year with the energy of Venus we have the chance to change for unconditional love! Start with loving yourself and accept that you can only receive love but never possess it!

Universal Love

January 15, 2011

How do you start to love everyone?
First you need to learn to love yourself. There is no reason to condemn yourself, or even to hate yourself. We are all from the one infinite energy; some call it God, Allah or Yahweh. For me it is the Universe. Since we are all energy, we are also a part of God. No reason to treat this part of God, who you are, badly. Only if you love yourself unconditionally, you can give love to others.

Another important step is to stop evaluating anything or anyone. Then you can get rid of your prejudices. Check any prejudice that you have, whether it makes sense or not. Then you realize, namely, whether it is your own prejudice due to a bad experience. In general, however, such paradigms are inherited, that means you have taken it over from somebody else.

Such prejudices come from your family and later the public opinion. But are you the public opinion?

Why do you want to limit yourself with such a useless burden and beliefs?
So get clear what you can get rid and make space for new information. To change your attitudes give your subconscious supporting information that you bring your goals.

Begin to see diversity as enrichment. You do this if you go to Greek, Italian, Indian, Turkish or Portuguese restaurants or cook even after such recipes. However, are you able to love these people from these countries unconditionally? These people often live in your neighborhood.

Peace can only be achieved if we learn to love all people. This is a shorter or longer learning process that depends on where you now stand.
But why not just start NOW? What prevents you
– to love yourself?
– to check your prejudices and then to successfully throw them overboard?

Just make the first step on your way to a happier and more successful life.

Conquer Your Fears

November 9, 2010

If you do not change yourself, your thinking, your feelings and your actions in the crisis, you get a colaps. Open yourself  to a greater and creative vision. This is a challenge.  The crisis is global and in the universal consciousness.

If you are reactive you are in defense and that means in fear.

If you are active you are in confidence and that means faith.

Always ask yourself:

What is your purpose?

What is your contribution?

What is the way to get there?

The answers need to come from your heart! As if it comes from your consciousness it is in fear, your personality and your thinking will shrink.  Get out of your survival attitude. Triggers of every failure you had, bring you to your knees. Love, forgiveness and gratitude get you out of fear. Allow yourself to be loved by others and love yourself. Forgiving others is forgiving yourself. Be grateful for everything that touches your heart and brings you joy and fulfillment.

The universal freedom goes around the earth. Be a part of it! Be active and change your thoughts, feelings and actions.

Are you still searching for Love?

October 15, 2010

Searching will not work as love is not what you want, it is what you are. It is very important to not get these two confused.

If you think that love is what you want, you will go searching for it all over the place. And you will stay in the momentum of searching. If you think love is what you are, you will go sharing it all over the place. The second approach will cause you to find what the searching will never reveal.

 

Normally two hungry people are looking for each other. As both do not have love inside off them and love themselves completely, they are not able to give love. After the first honeymoon that is reality. Two searching individuals and they cannot get what they are hungry for as both are empty. And then we wonder why most relationships are not functioning.

 

Yet you cannot give love in order to get it. Doing that is as much as saying you do not now have it. And that statement will, of course, be your reality. Instead you must give love because you have it to give. In this will you experience your own possession of it.

 

How can you start loving yourself?

 

Realize why you came to this world and that there is a higher reason to be here.

If you know your reason you can appreciate your life and yourself.

 

Start in the morning when you see yourself in the mirror. Great yourself, address yourself with your name and wish yourself a wonderful day and say “Jane I love you deeply and completely” and smile at yourself.

 

You have to love yourself and fill yourself with love to be able to share love. Remember you cannot share anything which you do not possess.

 

LOVE YOURSELF AND YOUR LIFE