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Fear contra the courage taking decisions

September 4, 2011

Which is bigger? Fear to take decisions or the fear of losing security?
What does security mean?  What is still safe? We live in a time of change and the only constant is change.
We are now hardly working as our parents did, more than 30 or even 40 years for one employer. Rarely, we are spared to get a second job, if we continue as an employee, want to enjoy the apparent safety. Often enough we are forced to change our profession because of disease or allergy. Unemployment is another reason to switch jobs.
On the other hand, young graduates are worn put by working 70 hours per week. They earn good money, but have no time to spend it. The family planning cannot take place because there is not enough time to meet a partner and to nurture the relationship. The reality of young physician assistants, young leaders in management and police officers is also very alarming.

 

Not only working twice as much per week, but on top is the enormous stress which builds up fear of doing something wrong. How long will the joy received in the profession remain?
They are bound to illness and burnout. Burnout is hitting even younger people.

 

Burnout should be taken seriously. However, should it be a part of professional life? Bullying is often the trigger for burnout. And after burnout bullying comes again because the person is less resilient.
How long will you endure your professional situation? Is it worth the security of retirement? Is it more precious than a happy and healthy life? Those who know what burnout is can no longer simply return to the old rat race. This is however expected from the colleagues and they are easily an outsider in the team.
More and more people stuck in temporary contracts and have little chance of a permanent contract. With The frequent change of companies and locations, they have no chance of a normal family life. In the schools young teachers are on temporary contracts. This means a constant start for teachers and students. Frustration and illness are the answer.
Does this really imply security?
As long as you are looking for securities on the outside, you will not find any security. Security you can only discover and cultivate inside of you.
You only reach real security if you can conquer the fear. Because then you can live in peace with yourself and the world. Only then you will also experience long-term success.

 

Get to know your fears. Then you’ll find that they rarely have to do something with your life reality. Fear is Mind Cinema! But nevertheless, it determines your life!

 

Which decision do you need to take urgently??

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Give up being satisfied…..

August 30, 2011

 

Satisfaction is not a virtue that leads to success. Satisfaction is counterproductive as you stop moving forward in life. Satisfaction can keep you in your comfort zone. Our subconscious mind tries to keep us there ever since, because it does not know anything else.
So if you want to be successful in life and reality is not quite as satisfying as you want, you have to get out of your comfort zone and set higher goals. This is the only way to give your subconscious new content.
Our subconscious mind has stored mainly what we have experienced prenatally until our seventh year of age. These include the emotions and spoken content of our parents, grandparents and other people who were important at that age for us. There your fears and concerns have their origin.
We feed our subconscious with content that it will recognize and solidify this information. You and your subconscious live a symbiotic relationship. Only if you recognize these believes and leave behind, you can actively take new ideas strengthen them with deep feelings and you have a chance to change things. If you leave it up to your subconscious mind, 96% of your thoughts come from your sub consciousness. We think mostly passively.
Then we feed our subconscious with
– Television and radio broadcasts, which have to do with the stored contents.
– Books and newspapers we read.
– Your beliefs that have their origin in the subconscious mind.
You and your subconscious are a good team. If you want to change something, you have to be active and lead your life consciously.
So never be never satisfied with what you have achieved, just be grateful. Leave your comfort zone and define major goals. You can achieve anything, because we are part of the creative force. Have the courage to be greater than your subconscious mind.
Satisfaction as a general mood is captive. “Actually, I feel pretty good.” And what does actually mean? Does it hold you back because of the fear of change? Where are your expectations?
If you are satisfied connected with gratitude, then you reach peace within yourself. It will not prevent you from wanting more in life and to stay in the flow.
Gratitude is the most intensive energy. What you are grateful for, you automatically draw more of that into your life.

Which is your way

 

A Life without Goals

July 10, 2011

In our time more and more people live without concrete targets. These people let themselves be driven and lead an inactive life. These are people in unemployment and with social support, but even people with good jobs who are trapped in a hamster wheel. Thus, they are no longer active, but go with the flow in their job and their life demands.

But you know deep inside yourself that you would have to change something. You even notice that you and your family are not doing well. You had at some point targets that are buried in everyday life: Job – House – Family-Debt – Disease. This is an eternal cycle that can only be broken when you do it actively. You have to change and take responsibility.

Anyone who moves in circles always has the same thoughts, feelings and actions and nothing can change nor improve. You only produced the same results again and again. The stream of everyday life drives you downwards into illnesses, burnout, depression and even suicide, as you no longer manage to turn the boat without any active decision.

It only helps when you to stop right here and now and take conscious responsibility. You have to take responsibility for your thoughts, feelings and actions. In addition, there are always multiple perspectives to assess a situation. Every coin has two sides. It is your responsibility to decide yourself! Do not complain for the lack of results, simply alters your thinking!

What is the Purpose of my Life?

June 12, 2011

Healing is embracing what you fear most.
Healing is the opening of what was previously closed.
Healing is the softening of what was hardened to a blockade.
Healing is the acceptance of others, no matter how they are.
Healing is learning to trust life.
Healing is to know that I am.
Healing can happen if you take a different view. Every coin has two sides. I can always look at everything only negative: “It will work out anyway! ” “Why should I be lucky?”, “It’s not for me!”
Dare a paradigm shift:
– What is really relevant to live a happy and fulfilling life?
– How to increase your success in life?
– How do you win a maximum of quality of life?
– What decisions do you need to take urgently?

Currently, we are encouraged massively to say goodbye to things / relationships that no longer function and are therefore no longer part of our lives. Do not look back and hold on things which need to go. Thus you will not see the opportunities that lie before you.
Open yourself, become part of the process to find out who you really are and why you did incarnate to be here right now.

Why I’m here – just in the time of great changes?
1) What is my purpose to be incarnated at this time?
2) What is my contribution in this life that increases the quality of life for everybody?
3) What is the reason for what I do right now (in all areas of life)
4) What do I want to leave to those who come after me?
5) What inspires me?
I wish you much fun on your way to find out your purpose of this life!

The world is changing

January 31, 2011

and you hopefully as well! Many people do not want to believe this and still look only backwards or hold on to things that no longer function. Fear still rules their lives. The fear is based in the subconscious. It stores the fears of your parents, grandparents or society. These fears have usually nothing to do with your reality, but it affects your reality.
Leave your fears behind you, since you’re not only the spectator but also the participant. You are the architect of your life. In our world the biggest crisis of the known human history developed to a question of our survival, it is high time for change.

If you acknowledge that the universe, our world and our bodies consist of a same energy field, is the most important beginning. This is known as quantum hologram, the Spirit of God, the spirit of nature or called the divine matrix. Recognize that human beliefs and the associated feelings and emotions have a direct impact on our DNA. And if you change your beliefs regarding your body and our world, the divine matrix until translates this into the reality of your life. You just need to know what you want to be changed. I decided at Christmas, that I want to change in the new year. I declared to be more open to new options. It’s absolutely fascinating to see what has come to me in the last 5 weeks.

The people of Tunisia and in Egypt have made their decisions and it’s just wonderful to see the enormous peaceful, yet resolute force prevails on the part of the population. They do not get impressed by the negative energies of power and its apparatus. It is great to see what the same changes or decisions can set free changes for countries!
What are the chances that your fear leaves you? Believe in yourself and your goals! Be open to something new and let old things go, so that new things can come!

 

How to get out of your personal crisis

October 30, 2010

When you are at the crossroad, where so many people are nowadays, you have to decide which way to follow. Many people are forced to take decisions concerning work, partner, children or their health. They feel deep inside that they have to make up their mind and change something. Remember : Time of  crisis is always time for opportunities!

Just yearning for a new way will not produce it. Only ending the old way can do that. As long as one door wants to be closed and you keep your foot in the door, because you need security or are unable to decide what you want, you keep going in circles. Be sure you close that door completely in order that the new door can open.

You cannot hold onto the old all the while declaring that you want something new. The old will defy the new; the old will deny the new; the old will decry the new.

There is only one way to bring in the new. You must make room for it. Learn to let go that  you make room for something new!