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Life on the Fast Lane

June 17, 2012

Do you still want to continue a life with the handbrake remaining on the fast lane?  Do you want just to react instead of feeling yourself and your needs?
This way you cannot live any real relationship. You and your partner live side by side, you both go your way and emotionally you are separated from each other. You might only know the lives in the outside.
Most people even live their private life on the fast lane. It’s always about diverting attention from him and the crisis.  Do you know that? Party until you drop, extreme sports, travel, concerts, sporting events, etc. If you only live your life in the outside it brings you only deeper into your crisis.
As long as you are fighting your crisis and do not want to look at it, it can only get worse:  marriage and relationship crises, alcohol dependence, depression, burnout, cancer, stomach ulcers, etc.
If you dare to confront yourself with your feelings and injuries, this is like a rebirth with the appropriate labor pains. However, the result is just incredible. You will discover yourself and you can then live your relationships differently, because you have a relationship with yourself now! Who am I and what do I want? And why would I want to that? These are your most important questions.

 

And if you need support to look at them, find somebody who got experience with what you are going through!
So then the lonely life with the handbrake on the fast track at last ceases at last. To live a happy and successful life you need to stop to make your life and your happiness dependent on external things. Your fear of losing control is your brakes. Confront yourself with your fears! Because when you get to know your true needs, you also come down from the fast lane.

Discover the little child in you and its needs to live what was never allowed? What rules did your family have and everybody had to obey them? Every family has its history and its handling rules? Could you show your feelings, were they noticed or ignored? To look at it hurts. Go into the pain and let them go. It is dangerous to stay in pain, because then you go into depression.
It is not about blaming anyone. Your parents were able to give only what they have experienced or received from their parents. These rules are often in a family since generations. You now have the chance to break this vicious cycle. Get to know your needs and seize the opportunity of change. Try out what you is good for you and always take enough time for yourself only then you can relate to others in a more successful way. Connect to yourself! Stop to live a life on the outside, unless you know your inner life.
Realize what your crises are and then grow beyond. I support people in this process. Just dare to simply let the control go when you do not want to be the perfect slave for yourself and others.
I now invite you to discover yourself!

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Grab your chances!

January 7, 2012

We must learn to understand what we do not understand.” Dr. Michael King

We live in a time of change. What has still been valid 5 years ago, no longer works today. People who take advantage of others are being discovered. Lies are exposed and rulers overthrown. The world is changing rapidly and people are more aware of it. Who does not change during the crisis but wants to hold on to old truths will perish. You go down and become ill or depressed. You will therefore be forced to act and who does not act will always go downhill. But we always have the choice to decide anew in each moment and to think differently. And yet, the numbers of suicides and depression are rising. You do not have to go this way! You have to grow every second with the ability to transform your thoughts.

The changes relate to the external and internal crisis. The external crisis was initiated by the banking crisis, followed by the real estate and economic crisis. Please do not believe any of the claims that the crisis would be behind us soon. For those who try to resist change, will experience bankruptcies, unemployment, fear and anxiety, burnout, and more and more anger, which caused only by lack of understanding. They will be forced to change.

It is the purest form of madness,  to leave everything that matters and simultaneously hope that things are changing.
First of all do not give any energy to crises. If we give our awareness to crisis, we instantly go into fear. Simultaneously, the crisis will not end as long as most people put  their heads in the sand and continue to remain in the solidification.

 

We are asked to support or to create new concepts to take our responsibility in any situation and create other forms of dealing with each other.

 

Do you also deny that we live in an ever more exciting time?

 

How do you react to that?

Are you going into fear and worries, because you do not understand many things? And the statements in the media do not give you the information you need? Things around us happen in order to awaken us. Finally wake up and leave your comfort zone.

Dare to change yourself!

To get out of personal crises, the faith that you can manage to leave the crisis behind you is important. You just need to desire it.

How do you define your crisis?

In which areas of your life are your own personal crisis:

–      Relationship,

–      Family,

–      Job,

–      Independence,

–      Financial freedom,

–      Leisure time or

–      Even within yourself?
Crises force us to act. If we do not get out of your comfort zone, we become sick and get even into greater crisis. Never forget, we are forced to rethink and change.

 

Grab your chances and invest in yourself!