Archive for July 2012

Get out of your comfort zone

July 28, 2012

Don’t hold your breath waiting for things to calm down so you can concentrate and really “do it right”…..sorry…. those days are gone for good. Time to trust yourself and others, take a chance and co-create a better future “shooting from the hip” as they say in the United States!

 

That is the influence of the astrological energy right now for the coming week. It is the time of action. No more waiting. Waiting for what? It is you who has to take the decisions. Do not delay; just listen to your inner voice.

 

The seeds you sow at the new moon a week ago are growing. Act in a creative expression and do what you have to do. Do, act and decide in joy and the faith that whatever you decide is for the good of all concerned.

 

The masculine energy wants to be seen now. What is in your life that wants to be confronted, combined or creating transformation?

 

Remember when you delay you go into fear and become sick at a certain point. We are here to take responsibility for our thoughts, feelings and action. Taking responsibility you can create a new reality through action and interaction.

 

Impulses and inspiration emerge. Be careful when it brings fear of disapproval. Just get out of your comfort zone and dare something you always wanted but did not have the courage to go for it!

 

2012 stand for evolution and changes. You decide whether you are proactive and take responsibility.  That is what is needed on times of change. There are so many great movements and project to create a new world. Just find out what is right for you and then go for it!

Get out of your comfort zone; make a decision to create something new!

 

The Mantra of this week:

“With bold determination I make my decision, to change the force of tension into the act of creation!”

 

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Are you willing to lose?

July 22, 2012

One essential truth is that you must be willing to lose it all before you can have it all.

What does this mean? It means that until you can let go of everything, you will find it hard to hold onto anything.

 

Detachment is the key. If you are so attached to something that you are deeply unhappy without it, and then you are not simply attached, you are addicted.

 

You will not have to think but a second to know exactly why you received this message today.

 

Many people are addicted to our own habits and musts which are dictated from outside: job, generation, peer-group, society and advertisement.

 

Go and questions these musts! Here are just a few of them:

 

Is it necessary to drive a certain car because you have a certain job, even you hardly can afford it?

Is it necessary to wear certain brands just because the others do the same?

Is it really necessary to run your life constantly on high speed? Always overtaking others no matter what it costs.

Is it necessary to neglect your family just because your work has the only priority?

What would happen if you downsize your life in certain areas?

 

It could be

–      You start to enjoy life in a different way.

–      With the exercise of regular meditation you could be healthier.

–      Caring about yourself and your loved ones, makes you free to do a better job.

–      Letting go gives you mental freedom to love yourself and see the real values of life.

 

We can live a peaceful, happy and successful life when we take time and work with our blockages. They are the ones reducing quality of a fulfilled life. You notice that there is something missing, That is the reason to prevent that feeling and get addicted to some bad habits.

 

Do not be afraid to meet your chore needs and your feelings. When you start to look at your habits you encounter your blockages. Feeling what hurt you in your childhood is the first step to encounter your fears.

 

Fears and worries are the success killer no 1 for all areas of life. Fears have very often nothing to do with your current life. They are mostly the fear of your parents. You inherited these fears even pre birth.  Get rid of things which do not belong to you. They prevent you to live a happy and fulfilled life.

 

In times of crises when the chaos starts it might be necessary to let go of things or ideas which are no longer appropriate. There is no longer any security from outside.

You can only find or develop security inside you.

 

When you are willing to lose all only then you can receive all. Never ever forget that you have to give first before you can receive. Where there is no free room the is no space for new things.

 

Your Mantra this week

“As I am willing to let go, the Universe which is abundant is willing to give!”

 

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The Pressure of Today

July 15, 2012

It is time to reflect, reorganize, re balance, reconsider …. in a time of increasing pressure.

The speed of things happening in your life and surrounding is increasing. Now is the time to look back, review contracts etc. Are your contracts and commitments in the flow or are they holding you back. Please check it out, otherwise you get into the hamster wheel. Look back and find out what is not in the current flow.

We will experience major changes in the next few weeks and months. You want to be prepared and not fall into panic because you are trapped in contracts which might be necessary to be changed or even broken.

This is you task at this time. Look at your life and see where it hurts, stops you from moving on or gives you trouble.

Remember that diamonds are created under pressure. And pressure creates volcanoes and when the come out they create more fertile land.

Now the pressure creates your true self expanding in the collective unconscious. This is the morphogenetic field

We can already see and experience the social fabric of many of our nations start to disintegrate, support systems falter, and financial crisis become more commonplace. Within our personal, family, and social relationships also, the temperature has been rising. This is the time to make changes. Get ready and do not resist the changes. This is the chance of your lifetime. Do not get into fear; just be grateful that we move into a better world.

The collective purpose along with the point of the buildup of all this energy and its inevitable release is a burst in conscious awareness leading to the liberation of suppressed, ignored, and denied human potential.

Speak the truth! When feelings are coming up, overreacting and justifying is coming up. This does not help us to stay in the truth. Overreaction is based on old feelings and experiences. This happened in our early childhood or are even only feelings out mothers had. They are reproduced when somebody clicks the right button.

Keep it at the level of feelings. Tell the other person who triggered the button “when you said that or die that, I felt ….!” Get into the true feelings. You mind will tell you you have the right to feel hurt. But it is only the feelings that are hurt. Come back into your balance when you learn to recognize your feelings. Your partnership got out of balance, but you can bring it back to balance, when you know what hurt your feelings and grow out of it.

Listen to other people. It is a challenging time to listen. Truth hurts, so check where it hurts.

Small becomes big and bog becomes small!!

Learn to say NO or NO MORE.

If you are too big, thinking you are always right, become humble.

If you are too small, it is high time to grow!

These are opportunities to deepen our relationships. Come out of your safety zone and you may get into new relationships.

Stay in your feelings, got to meetings or parties. Be seen and open for new challenges and opportunities.

Mantra of this week

“As I stand in the truth of who I am, I no longer fear to begin once more”

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