Archive for February 2012

Give Up Control

February 26, 2012

 Why is that so important? And why is it so difficult?

Most of us had good role models concerning control. Parents control their children and more of them even ignore them on the other side? You might ask “What is worse?”

You might even control your spouse and your co-workers. Just think about it and find out why you are so much interested what others do. Is this just because you do not know yourself or feel unworthy and never develop self-consciousness? Do you know your purpose and your goals?

Now why is it so important to give up control?

The most important reason is that we have to learn to build a better society as we cannot go on like that. You can see that we live in a critical time of change. As long as you resist changes you fight against yourself. You get sick, jobless and go into burnout and depression.

Most of us live in the 3-dimensional world which is school with different stages. Three quarter of the people live with a victim consciousness. You do not need to stay there as you can always change your thoughts.

Invest in yourself and live a life of love, joy, health and abundance you need to enhance your consciousness. Then you move on to the group of creators as you can create your reality. When you keep on learning you become a genius.

Learn to live from your heart with gratitude and love. We move out of the mind into the heart. It is about unity. We got to think with our heart, open ourselves for the inner voice and the inspirations we get while we wake up in the morning. I feel blessed that I follow my inspirations. No more need to live a life in fear and worries.

It is all about love, joy, smile and no more walls of separation. I am You and You are Me!

Therefore it is high time to find out what your purpose of life is. Work at your Goals and give up Control. If you really want to live a successful and fulfilled life leave the HOW to the Universe. It takes care as it is abundant. Work on your purpose and goals and add your feelings to your goals. That is how you learn to visualize what you really thrive for. Thrive for the truth which you find the moment you start thinking with your heart.

Embrace the Union!!! Get together with like minded people and set up cooperation to create a better world!

You find the practical e-book “ Goals Give Your Life Direction”  on Amazon

If you want to get out of fears check for “Success Killer No 1 – Fear  and Worries”

Discover your dreams

February 19, 2012


“To keep a lamp burning, we must continue to add fuel to it. ~ Mother Teresa
The easiest way to reach your dreams is to remember, what makes your eyes sparkle, and has done so in your youth. What were your childhood dreams? Just go into the feelings, if you recall them. What brings a tingling sensation in your stomach or makes your eyes light up?
If you enter on this path, you can quickly determine whether you live your dream or that of somebody else.
– What was the reason to take up this job? Was it your idea or your mother or your father?
– Why do you live where you live now? What was the reason to move there?
– What do you wish for your children? Did you realize your dreams?
Such questions can quickly lead you to your purpose.
Develop your vision so you know where your journey leads you. The only ways you can turn develop goals s which you can achieve. You can find more about this in my e-book “Goals Give Your Life Direction” on Amazon.
The following exercise is designed to help you clarify your vision. Thou can easily do a mental exercise, by thinking and write down what comes as a result. To distinguish, however, whether this is your subconscious mind giving you the answers or go to your inner voice, go in the relaxation. Take your time and make sure that you will not be disturbed. Let run relaxing music in the background and then go through each point carefully. Close your eyes and ask your subconscious mind, what your ideal life looks like at each individual point.
1. Keep the focus on the financial sector of your life. What is your annual income? What is your monthly cash flow? How much money have you created and saved? What is your asset?
Add your ideal numbers so you can realize your goals.

2. What is your home like? Where and how do you live? Describe your best view? What does your garden look like? What furniture is there? What are the colors of the walls? What kind of pictures do you have? Is there a swimming pool? Go through your perfect house and write down what it looks.
To be sure you get this house, give your subconscious the exact picture, because it loves pictures. If you can feel the joy that it is even clearer for your subconscious. Now it will do everything it can to achieve your goal. And the Universal Laws support you as well.

3.  Now, visualize your ideal car and other possessions which show your ideal income.

4.  Now, visualize your ideal job or your ideal career. Where do you work? What are you doing? Who are you working together? Who are your customers? What is your compensation? Is it your own business?

5.  How much leisure time do you have? What are you undertaking with you to your family and friends? What are your hobbies? How do you spend your holidays? What do you really enjoy?

6.  What is your vision of your ideal body and your perfect health? Are you free of disease? What age do you want to reach? Are you open, relaxed and in a perpetual state of bliss? Are you flexible and strong? What kind of food do you like? You drink enough water? How much time do you take off for relaxation and physical training?

7.  Now you look at your relationships with your family and friends. What is your relationship like with your spouse and your children? Who are your friends? What is the quality of the relationships with your friends? Do they support you in all situations? What are you doing together?

8.  What about your personal area? Do you continue learning? What else needs to be learned? Do you want to develop your spirituality? Do you need a coach, who will help you to develop your potential?

9. In the end you look at your church and your environment. Do you want to get involved there? Is that really the perfect community for you? Can you add value? What activities are there in your community? What charities do you support? Whom do you support?

You can visualize the whole exercise first and then write everything down in detail, or vice versa. Just make sure that you write down everything. Otherwise, go back and re-captured this exercise.

2nd Part: 100% responsibility

February 12, 2012


However, you can easily change the response to the event – until you get the desired result.
You can change your thoughts, communications, and thus the image you have of things. You can also change your behavior by altering your thoughts positive in order to change your feelings and actions. Then you begin to act and influence the situation, instead of just reacting to it.

If you take 100% responsibility, you will change the results instantly. Because then you have control over your thoughts, feelings and actions.

Unfortunately, most people are stuck firmly in their habits. There cannot be any change. We are stuck in our conditioned responses to certain situations. Ask yourself how you see the marriage and your role as parent. This gives you insights on habits and responses that you know from your parents.

We are a bundle of conditioned reflexes that occur outside our control.
So you need to take control by being responsible. You need to take control of your thoughts, dreams, daydreams, ideas and behavior patterns. Everything you think, say and do must match deliberately your calling, your values ​​and goals.

So if you do not like the result that you get, you can only change your response to it. This also means:
– Never give up.
– No more finger-pointing.
– No more defense.
– No, BUT.
You can only reach these behavioral changes if you stop watching television, listen radio and read novels. Be aware that as long as you let yourself influence by other means you are telling your subconscious mind with what it already knows. Changes can only happen when you deliberately and actively deliver new truths your subconscious mind.

It is time that we look behind the scenes and understand the connections. Do you recognize the truth that is deep within you? Listen to your inner voice and not to your mind. Your mind is fed by the subconscious mind, which is the memory of your experience and feelings. In addition, there are the feelings and fears of your parents and grandparents saved in your subconscious mind. That input you received before your EGO developed at the age of 7.

When people do not open themselves for the new consciousness, we will be in even more critical times and will meet social unrest. On the other hand, the new consciousness is already developing which we can see with promising new projects, starting with new enterprise projects such as the movement Occupy and the Thrive Movement. People are more aware and therefore more courageous, more stand up for the change.

You are a part of everything you see and feel. You have the opportunity to live in harmony with creation. You are not a fallen angel. You are here voluntarily and have also decided to be aware to be exactly here that time on earth. You are a dedicated and powerful being. You are the creator of your conscious thoughts, your feelings and actions, and thus the resulting consequences. If you want to have different results, just change your thoughts.

Take 100% responsibility for your life

February 5, 2012


“You must take personal responsibility. You can notice the circumstances, the seasons nor the wind does change, only you yourself can change “~ Jim Rohn

 
The most widespread myth in modern times is that we firmly believe that we have a right to a great life – that somehow, somewhere, someone (certainly not us) enriches our lives with continual happiness, exciting career, wonderful options and a relaxed family time as well as blissful personal relationships that only exist because we exist. You can do this only if you are actively working for these goals.
Because the truth is that there is only one person is responsible for the quality of your life.

That person is YOU.

If you want to be successful and achieve your goals, you have to take 100% responsibility for everything that happens in your life. This includes your level of performance, the results you produce, the quality of your relationships, your state of health and physical fitness, your income, your debts, your feelings – everything!
Most of us have been conditioned, however, that we blame anyone, anything outside of ourselves for the things in our lives that are not good. We blame our parents, our teachers, our boss, the media, our employees, our partners, the weather, politics or economics. Does blaming change anything in your life? Absolutely nothing, because you always have to remember that only your thoughts are responsible for your reality. And therefore the only thing you need to do, if you want to change something, take responsibility. There is no other way.
I found the following simple formula by Jack Canfield:

E + R= O

Event + Response = Outcome

The idea is that every outcome is determined by the event and the response. It does not matter whether it is success or failure, wealth or poverty, health or sickness, fun or frustration. If you think the result is not good, there are only two possibilities:
First You can give the event the blame for the lack of results.
In other words, you can blame everybody: your spouse, your children, society, your boss, your colleagues, the crisis of politics or the lack of support. These factors are there, no doubt, but if this were the deciding factor never anyone would be successful.

Bill Gates would never have founded Microsoft; Daniel Vettel never won the Grand Prix. Steve Jobs never would have put Apple in place. They certainly have had the same circumstances and become successful anyway. You can join them, if you take responsibility.

Blaming others you set yourself limits. Assigning guilt means that you give up or do not dare to succeed. Many people leave the so-called limiting factors behind them, so it cannot be the factors that limit you. The reasons on the outside are not keeping you away from success, it is always YOU. You limit yourself, because when you put your thoughts and barriers up, you fall into the defending behavior. We defend ourselves even with self-destructive habits (like smoking and drinking) with inexcusable logic.

Analyze your behavior and make a list of positive and negative habits. The next step is to capture the thoughts, which create the negative habits. Only when you change these thoughts, you can reach success.

Next Step is following